What’s going on with Jayden and Richard?

A lot. A lot of great things have been happening in our lives (not all great, but mostly great), but blogging has not been a priority.

Richard has been doing a lot of writing, which is awesome.

Jayden has been doing a lot of crafting: Cricut crafts, cross-stitch, and crochet.

We’ve been playing a lot of board games.

But we haven’t been blogging. Sorry about that. Maybe we’ll return in the new year? I would like to write again. I just… have been pursuing other creative pursuits just for me, and I love it. Want to see some of my projects? Let me know, and maybe I’ll post some here.

Smashwords E-book Sale!

I know, I know, I haven’t been great at posting lately. Please forgive me and my very busy schedule. I recently got to spend some time at Origins, one of the largest gaming conventions in the U.S. It was a great time, and I got to play a lot of cool games! (My favorite that I played was probably Endeavor: Deep Sea. Much fun!

I would love to get back into my writing more for the rest of the Summer, and there is an e-book sale on Smashwords for July. Maybe this will inspire me to get my fingers typing away again. I have four books for sale on Smashwords.

A real quick list of what I have up for sale (all less than $2 on sale!):

  • Exploration: An Erotic Novel – What would you do with the sudden opportunity to explore any facet of sexuality and BDSM with no judgment, prejudice, or dangerous consequences? In Mara’s community of Zebulon, that’s what she’s about to find out. With endless possibilities for exploration, she’s asked to work on a special assignment—an offer that will change the course of her life.
  • Exploring Limits – In Exploration, Mara learns a lot about sexuality and relationships, but there’s so much more to explore. What happens when James, Marchand, and Brandon all have an opportunity to push her to the highest peaks of pleasure? What will she do with three men? Find out in Exploring Limits, Book 2 in the Exploration series.
  • Y is for Yes – A chance encounter after hours at her new office job ropes Yvonne into a world of BDSM and exploration she never imagined. Join Yvonne on her adventure to ditch the business suits for lingerie in Y is for Yes by J. R. Vincente.
  • Runaway – Join Aralyn as she runs from her past in this Erotic Choose Your Own Adventure novel. Aralyn leaves town when her life is turned upside down. Your blood will race as you explore a new town and new people with Aralyn. She might even get to explore a BDSM Dungeon! Make your own choices and find out.

My advice? Runaway! It’s a fun time. Choose Your Own Adventures are fun to read, hard to write, and a blast to read over and over again! Get it on Smashwords today!

A to Z Reflections

Well, here we are in May and I’m late with my reflections post, haha. It’s all good. I planned all along to get the A to Z posts written and posted before April started and I had exactly 0 posts ready to go on April 1st. But I managed to almost entirely keep up. I think I had one or two days that I posted the day after and back-dated. I had a couple days where I was posting at 2am before I went to bed (or 3am or 4am…). But all 26 posts are up! And I think most of them are pretty good.

I also wanted to visit more blogs during April, and I didn’t succeed there either, but I’ve already found one that I’ve subscribed to and read all of her A to Z. I have a few that I was already following that I have or will read their A to Z. And I’m hoping now to be able to hit some more from Reflections and the upcoming Road Trip.

Drop your link in the comments so I can come visit your blog!

Sundays: Book Review

Usually on Sundays I post about the current Laurell K. Hamilton book I’m reading in my quest to read all of the Anita Blake series. Not that I don’t love it, but sometimes I need to get out of the world of sex and vampires for a brief bit before diving back in. So I picked up a novel off of my TBR (to be read) pile a few days ago. It’s called The Housemaid by Freida McFadden. I didn’t know anything about it, but someone had recommended it to Richard so he picked it up when he was at the book store.

Holy shit.

Go buy it right now. It was one of the best books I’ve ever read. I couldn’t put it down. I read pretty much every night before bed. One night, after Richard went to sleep, I turned the light back on and started reading again. The next thing I knew, it was 2am. Whoops. (Thankfully, I’m off of work the week.) It’s such a good book. I highly recommend it.

Goodreads Description:

“Welcome to the family,” Nina Winchester says as I shake her elegant, manicured hand. I smile politely, gazing around the marble hallway. Working here is my last chance to start fresh. I can pretend to be whoever I like. But I’ll soon learn that the Winchesters’ secrets are far more dangerous than my own…

Every day I clean the Winchesters’ beautiful house top to bottom. I collect their daughter from school. And I cook a delicious meal for the whole family before heading up to eat alone in my tiny room on the top floor.

I try to ignore how Nina makes a mess just to watch me clean it up. How she tells strange lies about her own daughter. And how her husband Andrew seems more broken every day. But as I look into Andrew’s handsome brown eyes, so full of pain, it’s hard not to imagine what it would be like to live Nina’s life. The walk-in closet, the fancy car, the perfect husband.

I only try on one of Nina’s pristine white dresses once. Just to see what it’s like. But she soon finds out… and by the time I realize my attic bedroom door only locks from the outside, it’s far too late.

But I reassure myself: the Winchesters don’t know who I really am.

They don’t know what I’m capable of…

An unbelievably twisty read that will have you glued to the pages late into the night. Anyone who loves The Woman in the Window, The Wife Between Us and The Girl on the Train won’t be able to put this down!

TMI Tuesday: March 18th

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2013, but we’re almost done! So here we are with an archived set of questions.


TMI Tuesday: December 17, 2013

Posted on December 16, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog

What do vibrators and Festivus have in common?

They are both the subject of this week’s TMI Tuesday.

tee shirt_tmi art

1. If there is one saying you would put on a tee-shirt what is it?

Jayden: Fuck me harder. (Not really, because I wouldn’t wear that in public.)

Richard: I hate clothes.

2. If you were a vibrator, what speed would you be?

Jayden: High. I’m always moving.

Richard: Slow and rumbly. Just because I like the word rumbly.

3. If you were a vibrator, which description best fits you:
a. small but mighty
b. passion prober, gentle, easy, eventually gets you there
c. big, rugged, pulsating
d. jumping gyrator, feel it everywhere, you may go numb

Jayden: a, though I’d like to be a little smaller overall!

Richard: I guess C goes with my other answer.

4. You must give up a sex/kink act for the rest of your life. Which one of these will you give up? Was your decision hard or easy and why?
You will give up:
a. Giving oral sex
b. Spanking – giving or receiving
c. Receiving oral pleasure on your genitals
d. Receiving nipple play: nipples sucked/lick/kissed/fondled, etc.
e. French kissing aka soul kiss

Jayden: e. I like kissing, but it’s not my favorite thing on this list.

Richard: d. My nipples aren’t that exciting.

5. In 10 words or less tell us about your most recent sexual encounter.

Jayden: Richard is masterful at pleasure. I want more now, please.

Richard: Jayden got drunk, but wasn’t any sluttier.

Bonus: ‘Tis the season of Festivus, it is only 7 days away. The best Festivus tradition is to “Air your grievances.” We don’t have time to hear all of your grievances so tell us your #1 grievance. (Don’t know about Festivus? click here to learn more)

Jayden: Obviously we’re off season, but whatever. I’m down to share my #1 grievance. The state of the world is so fucked up. Why is compassion political? How do I teach people to care about others? Some people really need to go back to elementary school or something. 

Richard: Pants.


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TMI Tuesday: March 11th

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2013, but we’re almost done! So here we are with an archived set of questions.


TMI Tuesday: January 14, 2014

Posted on January 13, 2014 by TMI Tuesday blog

Naughty Fill-ins

Don’t just fill in the blanks, sex it up! Show us just how sexy, kinky, and dirty your minds can be.

1. Right now I’m _______ .

Jayden: horny and excited to fool around with Richard tonight.
Richard: horny and excited to leave bite marks on Jayden.

2. Tonight I’d like to _______ in the _______.

Jayden: roleplay in the bedroom.
Richard: cum in my wife-slave.

3. _______ can do _______ to me anytime.

Jayden: Richard can do anything to me anytime.
Richard: Jayden can do whatever I order to me anytime.


4. The best thing to happen to me in 2014 has been _______ .

Jayden: Uh, 2014? I have no idea, haha. Let’s talk sexy life: the best thing has been sexting with Richard. We’re having fun fooling around and roleplaying together.
Richard: In 2014 I set up a surprise foursome for the girl I was dating.


5. _______ is one of the best feelings in the world.

Jayden: SNUGGLING
Richard: RED DINOSAUR

6. _______ really _______ me.

Jayden: Richard really loves me.
Richard: Jayden really wants me.

Bonus: Post a photo that really turns you on and tell us why it does.

Jayden:
Lock me up?

Richard:
Any variant of the “hands above head” pose is sexy because it’s vulnerable.


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TMI Tuesday: March 4th

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2013, but we’re almost done! So here we are with an archived set of questions.


TMI Tuesday: January 7, 2014

Posted on January 6, 2014 by TMI Tuesday blog

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions were submitted by Heelsnstocking at Sexual Adventures of a Married Woman blog.

Thoughts during sex

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1) What was the last fantasy you thought about while masturbating?

Jayden: I don’t remember the last time I masturbated… one that stands out was a few years back when I was driving up to see Richard at school, he “made” me masturbate in the car at a rest stop. It was really fucking sexy, and I fantasized about him being there with me.

Richard: I’ve played with myself a little with what I put in answer 2.

2) Do you think about fantasies while playing with your partner?

Jayden: Sometimes. I think about fun scenes that Richard I could do/have done. It’s nice having a partner I love to fantasize about.

Richard: Right now Jayden and I have been sexting back and forth about what it would be like if I took her virginity. We kept our age gap, so she’s graduating college and I’m graduating high school, which is extra spicy.

3) If the sex isn’t that great do you find your mind wanders? If yes, to what?

Jayden: I mean, I would never describe sex with Richard as “not that great,” but if it’s particularly vanilla (or if we’re just really tired), my mind may wander, but usually to sexual fantasies. It does, unfortunately happen that if I’m super anxious about something, I’ll be thinking about that instead of being in the moment, but that has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with my anxiety. It’s much better than it used to be.

Richard: It happens sometimes when we’re doing maintenance, I can zone out on the spanking a little. Usually on either work or my writing.

4) Have you ever thought about a previous partner while with another?

Jayden: Sure. Currently, it’s in a wow-this-partner-is-way-better-than-that-one way. 

Richard: Sure. Sometimes I do a similar scene or something and it reminds me.

5) What is the biggest turn-off thought that has barged into your head at the wrong moment?

Jayden: I can’t think of anything specific, though I’m sure there have been things.

Richard: I’m not sure about a mental one. Physically, I had a girl’s hymen stick to my dick once when I pulled out. I managed to discreetly get to the bathroom.

Bonus: If you were to think of another blogger during sexual play (intercourse, masturbating, etc.) to spice things up, who would it be? (put a link to their blog so we can all go think of them)

Jayden: I’m going to list two. These are my two favorites from the recent February Photo Fest: Focused and Filthy and Molly’s Daily Kiss. Both very sexy and fun to follow along with their lives! 

Richard: I don’t really follow any sex blogs. Anybody remember The Over Educated Nympho?


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TMI Tuesday: February 25th

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2013, but we’re almost done! So here we are with an archived set of questions.


TMI Tuesday: December 17, 2013

Posted on December 16, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog

What do vibrators and Festivus have in common?

They are both the subject of this week’s TMI Tuesday.

tee shirt_tmi art

1. If there is one saying you would put on a tee-shirt what is it?

Jayden: Fuck me harder. (Not really, because I wouldn’t wear that in public.)

Richard: I hate clothes.

2. If you were a vibrator, what speed would you be?

Jayden: High. I’m always moving.

Richard: Slow and rumbly. Just because I like the word rumbly.

3. If you were a vibrator, which description best fits you:
a. small but mighty
b. passion prober, gentle, easy, eventually gets you there
c. big, rugged, pulsating
d. jumping gyrator, feel it everywhere, you may go numb

Jayden: a, though I’d like to be a little smaller overall!

Richard: I guess C goes with my other answer.

4. You must give up a sex/kink act for the rest of your life. Which one of these will you give up? Was your decision hard or easy and why?
You will give up:
a. Giving oral sex
b. Spanking – giving or receiving
c. Receiving oral pleasure on your genitals
d. Receiving nipple play: nipples sucked/lick/kissed/fondled, etc.
e. French kissing aka soul kiss

Jayden: e. I like kissing, but it’s not my favorite thing on this list.

Richard: d. My nipples aren’t that exciting.

5. In 10 words or less tell us about your most recent sexual encounter.

Jayden: Richard is masterful at pleasure. I want more now, please.

Richard: Jayden got drunk, but wasn’t any sluttier.

Bonus: ‘Tis the season of Festivus, it is only 7 days away. The best Festivus tradition is to “Air your grievances.” We don’t have time to hear all of your grievances so tell us your #1 grievance. (Don’t know about Festivus? click here to learn more)

Jayden: Obviously we’re off season, but whatever. I’m down to share my #1 grievance. The state of the world is so fucked up. Why is compassion political? How do I teach people to care about others? Some people really need to go back to elementary school or something. 

Richard: Pants.


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TMI Tuesday: February 18th

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2013, but we’re almost done! So here we are with an archived set of questions.


TMI Tuesday: December 10, 2013

Posted on December 9, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog

You all know how I love to play “Would you rather…” so we are doing it again. I enjoyed creating these twisted TMI Tuesday questions. Here we go with …

Always expound on your answers, tell us why you made your choice.

1. During sex, would you rather be blindfolded or blindfold your lover?

Jayden: Be blindfolded. It always heightens the senses.

Richard: Probably be blindfolded. If I’m doing the blindfolding there has to be some amount of scene or whatever around it, it’s not something inherently kinky.

2. Would you rather watch your sibling having sex or have the sibling watch you have sex?

Jayden: I’m an only child, but I’d rather be watched in general.

Richard: I’m an only child, but I guess I would rather have sex than watch someone else in general.

3. Would you rather be arrested (not jailed) for soliciting a prostitute or jailed for one month for civil disobedience.

Jayden: Probably for soliciting a prostitute. I’d be afraid of being jailed. 

Richard: Does soliciting count as civil disobedience if I do it for the sake of protesting a bad law?

4. Would you rather give/receive blowjob on a crowded subway car or have sex on a picnic table at a family reunion?

Jayden: Crowded subway, if it’s a fantasy.

Richard: The picnic table is less likely to get me arrested, I think.

5. Would you rather do a strip-tease for your pastor/priest/rabbi/religious leader or for your co-workers?

Jayden: Coworkers, probably. Could be fun, depending on who I picked.

Richard: I’m sure I could find some coworkers who would be cool with it.

Bonus: Would you rather have endless amounts of money or the endless love of your significant other? Why?

Jayden: (Richard answered first this time.)

Richard: Money. Jayden is already madly in love with me, so nothing would change.

Jayden: I like Richard’s answer, so I’m going to steal it. 😉 Love you, Richard!


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