Another fantastic blast from the past! Do play, do enjoy.
This week’s TMI Tuesday questions were created by an anonymous blogger and lurker. This week’s theme– THE GOOD, THE BAD AND THE UGLY. Thank you Anonymous#1
1. What made the best sex partner you’ve ever had so good?
Richard: Good communication, and compatible kinks.
Jayden: I have nothing to add to what Richard said…
2. What made the worst sex partner you’ve ever had so bad?
Richard: I wasn’t super attracted to them, and basically just had sex with them to prove a point. Neither of us really enjoyed it much. I don’t think it was their fault, so much as the situation.
Jayden: I mean, I got actually raped once. That was no picnic. Other than that, bad partners are just partners who don’t communicate well.
3. Who was the most physically attractive person you ever had sex with?
Richard: There was a redhead I dated for a year or so just after I finished undergrad. Just the right amount of curvy, and red hair was a nice change (though dark hair is still my favorite.)
Jayden: I struggled for a long time to answer this question because physical attractiveness isn’t really a thing for me. It’s mostly an emotional attraction for me. And hands down, that person is Richard.
4. How was it?
Richard: Pretty good. Our kinks were reasonably compatible. She had a weirdly tight vagina (in a bad way), but her asshole was usually lubed from it enough that we had a lot of anal.
Jayden: Excellent. We have great sex.
5. Who was the least physically attractive person you ever had sex with?
Richard: Probably the girl from answer 2. She was just kind “plain.” I don’t think there was anything specifically wrong with how she looked, but I knew her for years and I can’t picture her at all.
Jayden: One time, my ex and I had a 4some with a couple we met on a swinging site. It was…bad. There is no other way to describe it. I think the lack of emotional connection had a lot to do with it. And the guy never took off his socks, which was…weird.
6. Why did you do it?
Richard: I had sex with her friend, and for some reason that meant she felt I had to have sex with her. I think she was trying to prove she was better or something.
Jayden: I felt like I had to? I don’t really know. It wasn’t rape, and I don’t think anyone pressured me, I just felt like it was an expectation so I did it. If I were in a similar situation now, I’d just say no thanks and end the date, but at that point in my life (more than a decade ago), I didn’t.
7. How was it?
Richard: Kind of boring.
Jayden: Bad. Real bad.
Bonus: Describe a bad sexual experience you admit was your fault.
Richard: Funny answer- One time, I fell asleep and wound up shoving my elbow into the girl I was snuggling’s vagina. Serious answer- I was doing some face slapping with a partner, and accidentally hit them in the ear. That ended the scene pretty quickly. I aim much more carefully now.
Jayden: I have always been bad at telling partners what I want. I don’t know why. I write dirty fucking sex scenes, but I have trouble verbalizing it. Always have. So there have definitely been some times where something wasn’t what I wanted, but I didn’t say anything because…I don’t know why. I got shy, I guess.
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