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Thanks to an anonymous TMI Tuesday blog lurker for this week’s questions…Famous or Forgotten
For each question answered, an accompanying story would be entertaining. Delight us!
1. Have you ever had sex with someone famous or who later became famous, if only locally?
Jayden: I don’t think so. Richard: One of my exes was reddit famous for a while.
2. In the spirit of Six Degrees of Separation, have you had sex with someone who had sex with someone who had sex with someone who . . . someone famous?
Jayden: Still probably not. Richard: Probably, but I can’t think of a specific example.
3. In the opposite direction, have you had sex with someone whose name you didn’t know?
Jayden: I’ve had sex with guys who I only knew their first name. But otherwise, no. (Hot though!) Richard: Nope.
4. Someone whose name you knew then but have forgotten?
Jayden: Definitely. Many. Oops. Richard: I don’t think so, but I had to take a minute and think pretty hard for a couple.
5. Someone who you suspect may have forgotten you?
Jayden: I’m sure they have. Richard: Probably.
Bonus question: Someone you wish you could forget?
Jayden: Umm, probably not. I like the way my life has turned out, so I don’t want to change the past. Richard: Nah.
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Whoops! Missed posting this one, but here it is now!
1. When is the last time you or your loved one had their prostate checked?
Jayden: Uhh, no idea. Richard: My dad had his like two months ago.
2. Besides a medical professional, how many other people have had their finger up your ass?
Jayden: A few. Recently? Just Richard. Richard: I dunno, a couple.
3. Have you ever given or received a prostate massage? Did you like it? Did you cum or orgasm?
Jayden: I haven’t, but I probably would. My nails are long, though. Richard: I have not.
4. Do you enjoy anal play–rimming, fingering, penetration, etc.?
Jayden: Yes, yes, yes. Richard: Mmmhmm
5. Ever had anal sex? A. No, and I don’t want to. B. No, but I am dying to try it. C. Yes, but it is just okay. D. Yes, love it…can’t get enough of it. E. That’s the way I like it. Anal sex is the best sex.
Jayden: D Richard: D, but it’s been a while. We should get on that. Update: We did, like four hours ago.
6. You are about to have anal sex, which method would you choose (You must choose one.): A. Finger up the ass B. Prostate stimulator/massager C. Penis–real or strap-on
Jayden: I don’t want to choose one! Fine. C. Richard: Also C.
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I am excited to share that I had the privilege of writing up the Sinful Sunday Roundup post this week! Although I’ve never personally participated in Sinful Sunday, I follow a lot of regulars who do. Richard and I are interested in joining in sometime soon, but life has hit us hard the last week.
The normal holiday stress is there, of course, but there’s been some extra things, too. Some medical emergencies in our family, on top of major happenings at work. All of that led to us skipping our Friday post and not even realizing it. So, apologies for missing Hallmark this week, but we plan to be back on track this Friday!
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Some men who have been treated for Prostate Cancer are unable to get an erection.
1. If they were treated with surgery, the usual reason is nerve damage. They may have success with a penis pump.
Question: Have you (or your partner) ever used a pump? Did it work? Was it a turn-on or a turn-off?
Jayden: I haven’t ever seen one used.
Richard: Nope.
2. If they were treated with radiation, the usual reason is damage to blood vessels. They may have good luck with Viagra or one of the other impotence meds. Question: Have you (or your partner) ever used Viagra, Cialis, or similar? Did it work? Any interesting side effects? Any 4-hour erections? Tell us how you made use of that 😉
Jayden: I’ve had a partner who used it. He said it gave him headaches, so it wasn’t really a fun time, unfortunately.
4. If they were treated with hormone therapy (e.g. Lupron Depot), they may also lose all libido. I can’t think of a good question, but if you have a story, please share. Some men diagnosed with Prostate Cancer change their diet or avoid certain foods.
Jayden: No story for this one, but I hope those people can find something that works for them.
Richard: This is turning into one of those awkward grad student surveys.
5. Did you ever change your diet for health reasons? How did it work out? How long did you stay on the diet? The prostate is a sexual organ, and treatment of the prostate changes the sexual experience.
Jayden: I have changed my diet for health reasons. It’s mostly stuck around and I’ve lost a lot of weight.
Richard: I was vegetarian for a while. I had a lot more energy. I’ve thought about going back, but I’m not sure how I’d cook for Jayden then.
6. A man who has had his prostate removed does not ejaculate at orgasm. How would you react to a total lack of cum?
Jayden: There are good and bad parts, as with most things. Less messy!
Richard: I think I’d really ham it up. “I’M CUMMING SO HARD, OOOH YEEEAHHHH!”
7. Although removal of the prostate reduces the intensity of orgasm in the pelvic region, some men report orgasmic feelings in other parts of the body, some describing a “whole body orgasm.” How cool is that?
Jayden: That does sound awesome!
Richard: Sounds fun.
8. Do you think a man treated for Prostate Cancer deserves a blow job? If yes, please email Virtual Sin aka SinnerMan…
Jayden: Sure! Hope he’s had many blow jobs since 2012…
Richard: We demand updates!
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This week the questions, from heelsnstocking.blogspot.com, have a moustache theme and a request for you to join in, even if it’s just a little self checking.
1. Ladies…Have you ever kissed a man with a moustache? Gentlemen… Have you ever had a moustache?
Did you like it?
Jayden: Yes. Many. I like it.
Richard: Yes to both. I have no strong preference.
2. They say ‘putting on the beard’ means going down on a lady with a full bush. Do you prefer a bearded, trimmed or bald pussy?
Jayden: I prefer bald for myself, but Richard likes a little patch, so I leave it for him.
Richard: I like the little triangle.
3. What’s your preferred style of ‘tashing on’? (snogging)
Jayden: Lots of light kisses, with lots of touching.
Richard: INSIDE BRAIN KISSES
4. When was the last time you cupped yours or anyone else’s testicles?
Jayden: Not too long ago, I cupped Richard’s. I’m not sure of a date, but it hasn’t been long.
Richard: I think mine is closest to an undercover brother. I would like to connect it to a goatee at some point.
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1. What is the longest relationship you have been in?
Jayden: ~17 years
Richard: ~5 years.
2. What is the shortest relationship you have been in?
Jayden: 4 days (I think? Something like that.)
Richard: Like 2 weeks.
3. How often do you have sex? How often do you want sex?
Jayden: About once a day, on average. Slightly more than that.
Richard: (I keep telling Jayden she wants sex more than once a day, and she always denies it.) Once a day is good.
4. How long does sex usually last?
Jayden: I think half an hour overall? Again, on average. Quickies are also fun and so are marathons.
Richard: I think it’s more like 15-20 minutes.
5. Have you ever had an experience where someone couldn’t perform, finished too quickly or couldn’t keep up with you? Tell us about it?
Jayden: Yeah. I had a string of partners for a while where none of them could perform. I really thought it was me. (Turns out, it wasn’t.)
Richard: I CAN’T USING NUMBING CONDOMS THEY MAKE MY PENIS SOFT AND I CAN’T EVEN FEEL THAT IT GOT SOFT!
6. If you could only have one “type” of sexual encounter for the rest of your life, would you prefer a) short and sweet b) wham bam thank you ma’am c) here for the long haul d) slow and tender
Jayden: Uh, only one? C, I guess?
Richard: D.
Bonus: Would you consider ending an otherwise healthy and loving relationship if the sex wasn’t what you wanted?
Jayden: I would definitely talk to my partner about options. I would hope that we could address it together, or have the freedom to date other people.
Richard: Ending it would be one option, or maybe opening it up.
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Thank you to the TMI Tuesday reader who submitted the following THEN AND NOW questions. He wanted to remain anonymous.
1. What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 17 year old you?
Jayden: I’m monogamous!
Richard: I’m a Dom!
2. What one thing might shock that younger you?
Jayden: I have fetishes I never would have thought to try then.
Richard: I got married!
3. What part of the younger you’s (not necessarily at age 17) sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?
Jayden: The freedom of college.
Richard: Yeah, college was pretty good.
4. Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?
Jayden: I would like a gang bang still.
Richard: Aforementioned hoop skirt scene.
Bonus: Give your 17 year old self a piece of sexual advice.
Jayden: Don’t fake an orgasm. Your partner can’t learn what you like if you fake it.
Richard: Don’t rush things, but don’t be afraid either.
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1. Have you ever had a friendship with someone where you secretly (or not so secretly) desired them?
Jayden: Yes. We stayed friends for a long time until he moved away and we drifted apart.
Richard: Plenty of times.
2. Are you prone to jealousy, suspicion or insecurity when your partner spends time with an attractive close friend without you? Why?
Jayden: Yes. I struggle with insecurity a lot, but I try not to.
Richard: Yeah, I don’t have the best self esteem.
3. Has a previously platonic friendship ever bloomed into a sexual relationship?
Jayden: Yep. Richard among them.
Richard: (It was platonic for like 30 seconds before she started hitting on me). I don’t think so.
4. Have you ever remained close friends with an ex-lover?
Jayden: Yes, definitely. One of my ex-lovers is one of my best friends.
Richard: Yeah, they were in our wedding.
Bonus: Have you ever developed feelings for a “friend with benefits”? How did it develop, unfold, resolve?
Jayden: Yes. Well, we’re married now, so… I guess it worked out. 😉
Richard: We cycled between dating, FWB, and screaming at each other for a while. We’re good friends now.
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Hey, hey, hey, hey…Time to get random again on TMI Tuesday. Why? Because it is fun to know random stuff about you; it can reveal a lot about your personality.
1. Tell us about your sluttiest act ever.
Jayden: One time, I went to the sex toy store and bought some treats for Richard. Then I went to his apartment (before we lived together) and took pictures and sent them to him.
Richard: Usually I enable others sluttery.
2. Have you ever played air-guitar. . .naked?
Jayden: I don’t think so?
Richard: Probably.
3. To what song do you most like to play air-guitar either clothed or naked?
Jayden: I play air piano, not guitar. I can’t think of any songs I play off the top of my head, but I’m sure there are some.
Richard: Bohemian Rhapsody is cliche, but probably accurate.
4. Are you good in bed? Why?
Jayden: I think so? I try to please my partner.
Richard: Yes. Because I don’t worry about pleasing my partner. (Is what Jayden would say in the heat of the moment).
5. What FEELS Sexy to you–tactile sensation? (Leave sight and taste out of this)
Jayden: What feels sexy is a light touch. When Richard touches my body, I can’t help but get turned on.
Richard: Prickly things, like electro play or a Wartenburg wheel
Bonus: Write a six word autobiography.
Jayden: Took an unexpected turn in 2021.
Richard: For sale, utility kilt, worn once.
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Thank you Gemma Jones for this week’s TMI Tuesday theme and questions focused on clothing.
1. What is your most favourite thing to wear that you have in your closet at the moment?
Jayden: I have this beautiful blue, pink, and purple dress that’s kind of reminiscent of the bi flag. Every time I wear it, I get so many compliments. It makes me feel confident and pretty.
Richard: Nothing is my favorite. Second is probably my aloha shirt collection.
2. What is the one item of clothing that you have seen on one of your friends / workmates that you would steal for yourself if you had the chance?
Jayden: My one workmate wears corduroy boot cut pants and I love them!
Richard: My coworker wore an aloha style shirt with like 20 different rock band logos today. It was pretty sweet.
3. What is the one thing that your partner wears that never fails to turn you on. Why does it turn you on so much?
Jayden: Um. What about when he doesn’t wear anything at all?
Richard: (What about the danger robe?) Batman pants!
Jayden: Oh yeah, I do like that robe. 🙂
4. What is the one thing you wear when you want to attract the attention of your partner or others?
Jayden: For my partner, it’s the batman pajama pants. Richard loves them.
Richard: I just Goldblum in whatever I’m wearing.
5. When you want to feel sexy what do you wear and why?
Jayden: Lingerie. I have some sexy lingerie that I rarely wear, but it does make me feel good.
Richard: My not-really-a-thong.
6. If you had unlimited funds but could only shop for one type of clothing (shoes, lingerie, fetish etc) what would it be?
Jayden: Fetish gear. It’s so pricy, especially because I would need it to be custom made to fit my body.
Richard: So. Many. Zipoff. Cargos.
Bonus: Tell us about your favourite scenario, real or fantasy, that involves some kind of clothing or fetish wear.
Jayden: My favorite is when Richard literally cuts the clothes from my body. It’s hot. Primal. Sexy.
Richard: Jayden in a giant, poofy hoop skirt dress, with another sub hiding under it to lick my cum out of her holes while we go out.
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Thank you to Ms. B for submitting this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.
Celebrity Sex-a-thon!
1. Who is your closest celebrity look-alike? And, who do you think is sexier, you or the celeb?
Jayden: I have no idea. I don’t think there are a lot of celebrities who look like me.
Richard: Is that a thing people know off the top of their head?
2. Who is the hottest male AND female celebrity you can think of? And, if the opportunity presented itself would you have sex with them?
Jayden: Male: Pierce Brosnan; Female: Angelina Jolie. I would like to.
Richard: Jeff Goldblum and… I dunno, Natalie Portman was pretty hot like 10 years ago? Maybe still is?
3. What celebrity do you fantasize about, but wouldn’t admit it to your friends?
Jayden: I have no shame. I’d admit any celebrity fantasies to my friends.
Richard: I don’t even know the last time I had a celeb fantasy.
4. Have you ever watched a leaked celebrity sex tape? Who was it or were they and what did you think? What would you have done differently if you were in the video with them?
Jayden: I haven’t. I’m boring. Sorry!
Richard: I think I saw one or two during one of the big rounds of them all getting released 10 or 15 years ago. They were pretty boring, honestly. And the cinematography was even worse than I expected.
5. If you are in a relationship, is there anyone your partner knows that you have the ‘hots’ for and they give you the okay to be intimate with? Who would be theirs?
Jayden: We haven’t specified someone that would like to sleep with specifically. Richard would pick Jeff Goldblum, and while I’d hope we could make it a threesome, I’d support it.
Richard: Jayden can fuck any B-list or higher celeb, if she gets them to sign her body somewhere first.
6. If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, who would you choose and what would you give them for dessert?
Jayden: My grandmother, assuming it’s someone who is alive or dead. I miss her terribly. I’d give her chocolate ice cream, because it was her favorite.
Richard: I’ll do my Pappy, but we’re putting our chocolate ice cream on apple pie.
Bonus: If you were offered the million dollar indecent proposal, what would your answer be and why?
Jayden: Sure. A million dollars buys a lot of house (or other things). (And I would support Richard doing the same.)
Richard: That’s house husband money!
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Thank you to Andee for submitting this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.
Strip for me, I’ll strip for you
1. Have you ever danced naked in front of anyone? What prompted the experience?
Jayden: Probably? In my teen years?
Richard: Sure, probably like once a week.
2. Have you been to a strip club? Was it what you expected?
Jayden: Yes, it was fun. It was probably about what I expected, but it was 19 years ago.
Richard: I don’t think so.
3. Have you ever been to an “amateur night” at a strip club?
Jayden: I have not. Sounds fun.
Richard: No.
4. Do you think strip clubs are exploitative or are they misunderstood as simple adult entertainment venues?
Jayden: Like anything, they can be exploitative, but I don’t think they are as a rule.
Richard: Same, but I would wager more towards the majority being exploitive.
5. Would you ever consider stripping to pay for college or other expenses?
Jayden: Possibly, but I don’t know that anyone would want to see me.
Richard: (I would) I seriously considered feet pics as a sideline during Covid. I had too much time on my hands, and a friend who insisted I had excellent feet. It was kind of fun to try and think of different places to take pictures of them.
6. Have you ever given your partner a private dance?
Jayden: I have in the past. Not in a long time.
Richard: I don’t think so. Certainly not lately.
7. Would you ever perform a lap dance for a complete stranger?
Jayden: Probably? If Richard told me to, I definitely would.
Richard: Sure!
8. Showgirls, Strip Tease, Magic Mike … What is the sexy Hollywood stripper scene you have ever YouTubed?
Jayden: I don’t remember ever YouTubing one.
Richard: I have vague memories of a vampire movie in college? With like cage dancers? Maybe?
Bonus: Do you have a stripper fantasy, that given the chance of not being found out, you would turn into a reality?
Jayden: I don’t think I have a particular fantasy, but it does sound hot.
Richard: Nothing specific.
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This week’s theme “Orgasms” and the questions are brought to you by Naughty Tashamber.
The Big O
1 – Do you remember your first orgasm? How old were you? Tell us about it.
Jayden: Not really. I have vague memories, but I was pretty young.
Richard: Not even remotely. I’m going to assume jerking off in the shower in my early teens?
2 – What is your favorite way to orgasm? (Sex, g-spot/p-spot, oral, etc).
Jayden: Richard’s fingers are divine. I like variety from time to time. I love when he goes down on me or uses a vibrator, but if I had to pick one, it would be Richard’s fingers.
Richard: Jayden’s ass, because of the noises she makes when my cock spasms.
3 – Are there any ways you want to experience an orgasm but haven’t yet? (oral, p-spot/g-spot, with or without a vibrator, squirt, etc).
Jayden: I don’t think so. I’ve never squirted, and that sounds fun, but that’s about it.
Richard: I’ve never used a fleshlight/tenga egg. Ooh, or prostate!
4 – Have you ever had an orgasm in your sleep?
Jayden: Yes, once. I was a teenager.
Richard: I don’t think so.
5 – What is the easiest/fastest way for you to have an orgasm?
Jayden: The Hitachi magic wand, probably? Self-inflicted, since every experience is different, so sometimes I want it harder or softer, lighter or harder, etc.
Richard: Just jerkin’ it really fast.
6 – How many times a week do you try to reach orgasm?
Jayden: Probably 2-3?
Richard: Most days.
7 – Have you ever had an orgasm at the same time as your partner? Who normally cums first?
Jayden: I’m sure it’s happened, but it’s not easy to achieve.
Richard: I think Jayden and I got pretty close once? I’ve had other partners who it was more of a thing with. For us, we’ve found that it’s more practical for me to cum first.
8 – Can you have multiples?
Jayden: Yes. I need a little recovery time in between, but I can orgasm more than once.
Richard: I don’t mind, but I don’t do it super often.
9 – How long does it normally take you to reach orgasm?
Jayden: A few minutes? I haven’t timed it. Richard can probably answer better.
Richard: I feel like her average is probably around 5. I think mine is probably pretty similar.
10 – Have you ever faked one?
Jayden: Not in a long time, but yes. I’ve never faked with Richard. Never needed to.
Richard: I think once or twice with like my second partner.
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This week’s TMI Tuesday questions come from the wacky, inventive, and sexually creative mind of the late phoenix.
Cum, are you a fan?
1. We are all incurable sex addicts, but name one thing—a job, a passion, a creative outlet, a collection—of yours you use as a replacement, a distraction from constantly thinking about sex 24/7.
Jayden: Organization and spreadsheets
Richard: Swiss Army Knives
2. Have you ever loved somebody so much you thought having sex with them would actually sully the pristine purity of that love?
Jayden: I don’t think so. Sex is a big part of love for me.
Richard: No. I did turn down my first girlfriend the first time we started to have sex, but that was more of a nerves thing.
3. If you could make love to yourself, would you?
Jayden: I’m not super attracted to myself, but I might. I do have nice breasts.
Richard: Nah, it’d be more fun to high five a lot while we tag teamed Jayden.
4. Cum, are you a fan? Explain and expound.
Jayden: Not particularly, actually. It has its sexiness, but I don’t want it all over me, in general. The best part is that I love pleasing Richard, so of course it’s great in that respect, but I like to get cleaned up relatively quickly when we’re done.
Richard: It’s sticky and slimy and irritating and it gets everywhere.
5. Does it creep you out to know that God is watching you as you’re fucking?
Jayden: Nope. If there’s a higher power that gave us this pleasure, they can watch all they want.
Richard: Sex isn’t even in the top 5 creepiest things I do for people to watch.
Bonus: Tell us something sexy that happened to you this week.
Jayden: Richard woke me up in the middle of the night for sex. I love when he does that. So much need and desire is sexy.
Richard: Yeah, I was really horny, and I couldn’t go back to sleep with a hard on.
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Boob Day is a celebration of chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. You can check out the link up over on aleapoffaith.uk. I snapped this picture while lounging at home.
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This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are about gettin’ off. When you need it, you just gotta get it anyway you can. (For those who are innocent babies “IT” is sex)
Gettin’ Off
1. Have you ever initiated a booty call?
Jayden: Yeah, in college.
Richard: Yeah. Mostly in college, I had an ex I had come over pretty regularly.
2. Have you ever accepted a booty call?
Jayden: Yeah, in college.
Richard: Probably? I tend to host more often than not, so I can’t think of a specific time.
3. Ever had a “friend with benefits” relationship? How long did it last? Are you still friends or acquaintances with that person? Are you still having sex with that friend?
Jayden: Yeah for sure. I’ve had many over the years, but none currently.
Richard: I’ve had a couple. The longest one lasted (off and on a bit) for several years. We’re still good friends (they were in my wedding), but we don’t fuck anymore.
4. Tell us about your best one-night stand, what made it so good?
Jayden: I don’t know if I’ve ever had a one night stand. I’ve had some people that I slept with once and then the relationship didn’t work out, but I don’t think that’s the same thing. The intention wasn’t to be one night.
Richard: I don’t think I’ve ever actually had a one night stand. I’m pretty sure everyone I’ve slept with I’ve been with at least twice.
5. When was your last one-night stand?
Jayden: Uhh, many years ago. I don’t even remember.
Richard: Never?
6. What’s the grimiest, dirtiest place that you’ve had sex?
Jayden: Movie theater bathroom, though it was just hand stuff, I think.
Richard: Dorm bathroom. It was a fairly clean though, since it was the locked family/handicapped one.
Bonus: What’s the one random thing you wish your friends knew about you?
Jayden: That I wish I had more confidence when I sing. I sing pretty well, and I like to sing karaoke and things, but I always feel awkward signing up.
Richard: That I have way too many knives/multitools, and I’d totally hook them up if they asked.
TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses.
Boob Day is a celebration of chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. You can check out the link up over on aleapoffaith.uk. I snapped this picture while in the outdoor shower at camp. It was a lovely day!
The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.
This week’s TMI Tuesday theme and questions come from Bi and Bi.
Pain and Pleasure
1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?
Jayden: Both please. Sex with no pain is a rarity in our household.
Richard: More pleasure. I like some good sting from time to time though.
2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?
Jayden: Yes, sometimes. Anywhere (and I am ticklish everywhere).
Richard: Nope. I’m the tickler.
3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?
Jayden: Yeah, I think someone’s tickled me with feathers. It’s okay.
Richard: I’ve used a feather tickler a few times. It was okay.
4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?
Jayden: Yes please. Sensory deprivation is fun.
Richard: Yeah. And then I like trying to get it off to be a brat.
5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?
Jayden: Yes! Richard has taught me that I like sensation play…
Richard: I like using ice cubes. Wax play is fun too.
6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?
Jayden: Both, but I prefer being spanked.
Richard: Both
7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?
Jayden: Of course I do. And yes I have.
Richard: I don’t think I’ve ever had to use it, that’s mostly Jayden’s job.
TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses.
Boob Day is a celebration of chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. You can check out the link up over on aleapoffaith.uk. This is a lovely picture I snapped while lying in bed this morning. My bedroom is very bright in the mornings, thanks to two skylights.
The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.
Looking back on our lives, we can have a mix of reactions to the things we’ve done. When it comes to sex, our memories can color us with pride, fondness, nostalgia, indifference, or all too often, regret.
This week’s TMI Tuesday questions delve into things that people typically regret later in life. How much do you regret, if at all, any of the following?
1. Do you regret how you “lost” your virginity? If yes, why and to whom would you have preferred to have lost it?
Jayden: So, I’m going to preface this whole post with the fact that I don’t actually believe in regrets, but there are definitely stories to tell…
I was too young when I lost my virginity. Like, way too young. I was 11. It was my choice. It was just stupid. My neighbor was a good friend and I had a huge crush on him, and well, he was my first. I got VERY lucky that I never got an STD and I later found out I couldn’t have gotten pregnant anyway, but I was lucky I didn’t. My life could have turned out very differently, but I’m glad it turned out the way it did.
Richard: No, it was fine. I lost it to a good friend and there was no trauma.
2. Have you ever lived a moment in your life where you said “Yeah, I’m not going to ever tell anyone about that.” Describe that moment or incident.
Jayden: I’m sure I have. The things that come to mind would be bathroom accidents. Embarrassing!
Richard: I don’t think so. I’m an oversharerer.
3. Do you regret having acted on a sexual impulse? If yes, please describe.
Jayden: Yeah. When I was with my ex, we met a couple and fooled around. They were super awkward. We should have just said no thanks.
Richard: I got catfished once.
4. Do you regret not having had sex with someone who you could have had sex? If yes, would you do it over and have sex?
Jayden: Yes. I had a partner when I was younger and we both didn’t want to initiate sex because we didn’t want the other one to think we were just interested in sex. That was when I learned to just be honest about what I wanted. (And I don’t think it would have changed anything in our non-relationship anyway.)
Richard: Not really. I can only think of one time, and I’m pretty sure it wouldn’t have wound up being a healthy relationship.
5. Do you regret not having asked out or tried to hook up with someone you really liked out of fear of rejection only to later learn that person wanted you, too? If yes, please describe.
Jayden: Yes. I had twins who were both interested in me. I’m sure it wouldn’t have worked out, but I had to choose between them and I was stuck in non-decision. By the time I decided, they’d moved on.
Richard: I didn’t find out that they liked me, but I do think we would’ve been compatible. I worked at a summer camp and had a crush on a guy. Never made a move on him (tried to get him to make one on me). Years later, I find out that he was actually pretty subby, and we had a lot of similar kinks. Oh well.
6. Do you regret having done a particular sex act? If yes, please describe.
Jayden: I don’t think so. I can’t think of anything.
Richard: Nope. I’m pretty boring this week.
Bonus: Do you regret not having told someone you love them? Romantic, not familial or friendship love.
Jayden: Nah, I don’t think so. I’m pretty open about my feelings.
Richard: I don’t think so. If anything, I’m too prone to saying it.
TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses.
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