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This week the questions, from heelsnstocking.blogspot.com, have a moustache theme and a request for you to join in, even if it’s just a little self checking.
1. Ladies…Have you ever kissed a man with a moustache? Gentlemen… Have you ever had a moustache?
Did you like it?
Jayden: Yes. Many. I like it.
Richard: Yes to both. I have no strong preference.
2. They say ‘putting on the beard’ means going down on a lady with a full bush. Do you prefer a bearded, trimmed or bald pussy?
Jayden: I prefer bald for myself, but Richard likes a little patch, so I leave it for him.
Richard: I like the little triangle.
3. What’s your preferred style of ‘tashing on’? (snogging)
Jayden: Lots of light kisses, with lots of touching.
Richard: INSIDE BRAIN KISSES
4. When was the last time you cupped yours or anyone else’s testicles?
Jayden: Not too long ago, I cupped Richard’s. I’m not sure of a date, but it hasn’t been long.
Richard: I think mine is closest to an undercover brother. I would like to connect it to a goatee at some point.
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1. What is the longest relationship you have been in?
Jayden: ~17 years
Richard: ~5 years.
2. What is the shortest relationship you have been in?
Jayden: 4 days (I think? Something like that.)
Richard: Like 2 weeks.
3. How often do you have sex? How often do you want sex?
Jayden: About once a day, on average. Slightly more than that.
Richard: (I keep telling Jayden she wants sex more than once a day, and she always denies it.) Once a day is good.
4. How long does sex usually last?
Jayden: I think half an hour overall? Again, on average. Quickies are also fun and so are marathons.
Richard: I think it’s more like 15-20 minutes.
5. Have you ever had an experience where someone couldn’t perform, finished too quickly or couldn’t keep up with you? Tell us about it?
Jayden: Yeah. I had a string of partners for a while where none of them could perform. I really thought it was me. (Turns out, it wasn’t.)
Richard: I CAN’T USING NUMBING CONDOMS THEY MAKE MY PENIS SOFT AND I CAN’T EVEN FEEL THAT IT GOT SOFT!
6. If you could only have one “type” of sexual encounter for the rest of your life, would you prefer a) short and sweet b) wham bam thank you ma’am c) here for the long haul d) slow and tender
Jayden: Uh, only one? C, I guess?
Richard: D.
Bonus: Would you consider ending an otherwise healthy and loving relationship if the sex wasn’t what you wanted?
Jayden: I would definitely talk to my partner about options. I would hope that we could address it together, or have the freedom to date other people.
Richard: Ending it would be one option, or maybe opening it up.
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Thank you to the TMI Tuesday reader who submitted the following THEN AND NOW questions. He wanted to remain anonymous.
1. What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 17 year old you?
Jayden: I’m monogamous!
Richard: I’m a Dom!
2. What one thing might shock that younger you?
Jayden: I have fetishes I never would have thought to try then.
Richard: I got married!
3. What part of the younger you’s (not necessarily at age 17) sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?
Jayden: The freedom of college.
Richard: Yeah, college was pretty good.
4. Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?
Jayden: I would like a gang bang still.
Richard: Aforementioned hoop skirt scene.
Bonus: Give your 17 year old self a piece of sexual advice.
Jayden: Don’t fake an orgasm. Your partner can’t learn what you like if you fake it.
Richard: Don’t rush things, but don’t be afraid either.
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1. Have you ever had a friendship with someone where you secretly (or not so secretly) desired them?
Jayden: Yes. We stayed friends for a long time until he moved away and we drifted apart.
Richard: Plenty of times.
2. Are you prone to jealousy, suspicion or insecurity when your partner spends time with an attractive close friend without you? Why?
Jayden: Yes. I struggle with insecurity a lot, but I try not to.
Richard: Yeah, I don’t have the best self esteem.
3. Has a previously platonic friendship ever bloomed into a sexual relationship?
Jayden: Yep. Richard among them.
Richard: (It was platonic for like 30 seconds before she started hitting on me). I don’t think so.
4. Have you ever remained close friends with an ex-lover?
Jayden: Yes, definitely. One of my ex-lovers is one of my best friends.
Richard: Yeah, they were in our wedding.
Bonus: Have you ever developed feelings for a “friend with benefits”? How did it develop, unfold, resolve?
Jayden: Yes. Well, we’re married now, so… I guess it worked out. 😉
Richard: We cycled between dating, FWB, and screaming at each other for a while. We’re good friends now.
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Hey, hey, hey, hey…Time to get random again on TMI Tuesday. Why? Because it is fun to know random stuff about you; it can reveal a lot about your personality.
1. Tell us about your sluttiest act ever.
Jayden: One time, I went to the sex toy store and bought some treats for Richard. Then I went to his apartment (before we lived together) and took pictures and sent them to him.
Richard: Usually I enable others sluttery.
2. Have you ever played air-guitar. . .naked?
Jayden: I don’t think so?
Richard: Probably.
3. To what song do you most like to play air-guitar either clothed or naked?
Jayden: I play air piano, not guitar. I can’t think of any songs I play off the top of my head, but I’m sure there are some.
Richard: Bohemian Rhapsody is cliche, but probably accurate.
4. Are you good in bed? Why?
Jayden: I think so? I try to please my partner.
Richard: Yes. Because I don’t worry about pleasing my partner. (Is what Jayden would say in the heat of the moment).
5. What FEELS Sexy to you–tactile sensation? (Leave sight and taste out of this)
Jayden: What feels sexy is a light touch. When Richard touches my body, I can’t help but get turned on.
Richard: Prickly things, like electro play or a Wartenburg wheel
Bonus: Write a six word autobiography.
Jayden: Took an unexpected turn in 2021.
Richard: For sale, utility kilt, worn once.
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Thank you Gemma Jones for this week’s TMI Tuesday theme and questions focused on clothing.
1. What is your most favourite thing to wear that you have in your closet at the moment?
Jayden: I have this beautiful blue, pink, and purple dress that’s kind of reminiscent of the bi flag. Every time I wear it, I get so many compliments. It makes me feel confident and pretty.
Richard: Nothing is my favorite. Second is probably my aloha shirt collection.
2. What is the one item of clothing that you have seen on one of your friends / workmates that you would steal for yourself if you had the chance?
Jayden: My one workmate wears corduroy boot cut pants and I love them!
Richard: My coworker wore an aloha style shirt with like 20 different rock band logos today. It was pretty sweet.
3. What is the one thing that your partner wears that never fails to turn you on. Why does it turn you on so much?
Jayden: Um. What about when he doesn’t wear anything at all?
Richard: (What about the danger robe?) Batman pants!
Jayden: Oh yeah, I do like that robe. 🙂
4. What is the one thing you wear when you want to attract the attention of your partner or others?
Jayden: For my partner, it’s the batman pajama pants. Richard loves them.
Richard: I just Goldblum in whatever I’m wearing.
5. When you want to feel sexy what do you wear and why?
Jayden: Lingerie. I have some sexy lingerie that I rarely wear, but it does make me feel good.
Richard: My not-really-a-thong.
6. If you had unlimited funds but could only shop for one type of clothing (shoes, lingerie, fetish etc) what would it be?
Jayden: Fetish gear. It’s so pricy, especially because I would need it to be custom made to fit my body.
Richard: So. Many. Zipoff. Cargos.
Bonus: Tell us about your favourite scenario, real or fantasy, that involves some kind of clothing or fetish wear.
Jayden: My favorite is when Richard literally cuts the clothes from my body. It’s hot. Primal. Sexy.
Richard: Jayden in a giant, poofy hoop skirt dress, with another sub hiding under it to lick my cum out of her holes while we go out.
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Thank you to Ms. B for submitting this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.
Celebrity Sex-a-thon!
1. Who is your closest celebrity look-alike? And, who do you think is sexier, you or the celeb?
Jayden: I have no idea. I don’t think there are a lot of celebrities who look like me.
Richard: Is that a thing people know off the top of their head?
2. Who is the hottest male AND female celebrity you can think of? And, if the opportunity presented itself would you have sex with them?
Jayden: Male: Pierce Brosnan; Female: Angelina Jolie. I would like to.
Richard: Jeff Goldblum and… I dunno, Natalie Portman was pretty hot like 10 years ago? Maybe still is?
3. What celebrity do you fantasize about, but wouldn’t admit it to your friends?
Jayden: I have no shame. I’d admit any celebrity fantasies to my friends.
Richard: I don’t even know the last time I had a celeb fantasy.
4. Have you ever watched a leaked celebrity sex tape? Who was it or were they and what did you think? What would you have done differently if you were in the video with them?
Jayden: I haven’t. I’m boring. Sorry!
Richard: I think I saw one or two during one of the big rounds of them all getting released 10 or 15 years ago. They were pretty boring, honestly. And the cinematography was even worse than I expected.
5. If you are in a relationship, is there anyone your partner knows that you have the ‘hots’ for and they give you the okay to be intimate with? Who would be theirs?
Jayden: We haven’t specified someone that would like to sleep with specifically. Richard would pick Jeff Goldblum, and while I’d hope we could make it a threesome, I’d support it.
Richard: Jayden can fuck any B-list or higher celeb, if she gets them to sign her body somewhere first.
6. If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, who would you choose and what would you give them for dessert?
Jayden: My grandmother, assuming it’s someone who is alive or dead. I miss her terribly. I’d give her chocolate ice cream, because it was her favorite.
Richard: I’ll do my Pappy, but we’re putting our chocolate ice cream on apple pie.
Bonus: If you were offered the million dollar indecent proposal, what would your answer be and why?
Jayden: Sure. A million dollars buys a lot of house (or other things). (And I would support Richard doing the same.)
Richard: That’s house husband money!
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Thank you to Andee for submitting this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.
Strip for me, I’ll strip for you
1. Have you ever danced naked in front of anyone? What prompted the experience?
Jayden: Probably? In my teen years?
Richard: Sure, probably like once a week.
2. Have you been to a strip club? Was it what you expected?
Jayden: Yes, it was fun. It was probably about what I expected, but it was 19 years ago.
Richard: I don’t think so.
3. Have you ever been to an “amateur night” at a strip club?
Jayden: I have not. Sounds fun.
Richard: No.
4. Do you think strip clubs are exploitative or are they misunderstood as simple adult entertainment venues?
Jayden: Like anything, they can be exploitative, but I don’t think they are as a rule.
Richard: Same, but I would wager more towards the majority being exploitive.
5. Would you ever consider stripping to pay for college or other expenses?
Jayden: Possibly, but I don’t know that anyone would want to see me.
Richard: (I would) I seriously considered feet pics as a sideline during Covid. I had too much time on my hands, and a friend who insisted I had excellent feet. It was kind of fun to try and think of different places to take pictures of them.
6. Have you ever given your partner a private dance?
Jayden: I have in the past. Not in a long time.
Richard: I don’t think so. Certainly not lately.
7. Would you ever perform a lap dance for a complete stranger?
Jayden: Probably? If Richard told me to, I definitely would.
Richard: Sure!
8. Showgirls, Strip Tease, Magic Mike … What is the sexy Hollywood stripper scene you have ever YouTubed?
Jayden: I don’t remember ever YouTubing one.
Richard: I have vague memories of a vampire movie in college? With like cage dancers? Maybe?
Bonus: Do you have a stripper fantasy, that given the chance of not being found out, you would turn into a reality?
Jayden: I don’t think I have a particular fantasy, but it does sound hot.
Richard: Nothing specific.
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This week’s theme “Orgasms” and the questions are brought to you by Naughty Tashamber.
The Big O
1 – Do you remember your first orgasm? How old were you? Tell us about it.
Jayden: Not really. I have vague memories, but I was pretty young.
Richard: Not even remotely. I’m going to assume jerking off in the shower in my early teens?
2 – What is your favorite way to orgasm? (Sex, g-spot/p-spot, oral, etc).
Jayden: Richard’s fingers are divine. I like variety from time to time. I love when he goes down on me or uses a vibrator, but if I had to pick one, it would be Richard’s fingers.
Richard: Jayden’s ass, because of the noises she makes when my cock spasms.
3 – Are there any ways you want to experience an orgasm but haven’t yet? (oral, p-spot/g-spot, with or without a vibrator, squirt, etc).
Jayden: I don’t think so. I’ve never squirted, and that sounds fun, but that’s about it.
Richard: I’ve never used a fleshlight/tenga egg. Ooh, or prostate!
4 – Have you ever had an orgasm in your sleep?
Jayden: Yes, once. I was a teenager.
Richard: I don’t think so.
5 – What is the easiest/fastest way for you to have an orgasm?
Jayden: The Hitachi magic wand, probably? Self-inflicted, since every experience is different, so sometimes I want it harder or softer, lighter or harder, etc.
Richard: Just jerkin’ it really fast.
6 – How many times a week do you try to reach orgasm?
Jayden: Probably 2-3?
Richard: Most days.
7 – Have you ever had an orgasm at the same time as your partner? Who normally cums first?
Jayden: I’m sure it’s happened, but it’s not easy to achieve.
Richard: I think Jayden and I got pretty close once? I’ve had other partners who it was more of a thing with. For us, we’ve found that it’s more practical for me to cum first.
8 – Can you have multiples?
Jayden: Yes. I need a little recovery time in between, but I can orgasm more than once.
Richard: I don’t mind, but I don’t do it super often.
9 – How long does it normally take you to reach orgasm?
Jayden: A few minutes? I haven’t timed it. Richard can probably answer better.
Richard: I feel like her average is probably around 5. I think mine is probably pretty similar.
10 – Have you ever faked one?
Jayden: Not in a long time, but yes. I’ve never faked with Richard. Never needed to.
Richard: I think once or twice with like my second partner.
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This week’s TMI Tuesday questions come from the wacky, inventive, and sexually creative mind of the late phoenix.
Cum, are you a fan?
1. We are all incurable sex addicts, but name one thing—a job, a passion, a creative outlet, a collection—of yours you use as a replacement, a distraction from constantly thinking about sex 24/7.
Jayden: Organization and spreadsheets
Richard: Swiss Army Knives
2. Have you ever loved somebody so much you thought having sex with them would actually sully the pristine purity of that love?
Jayden: I don’t think so. Sex is a big part of love for me.
Richard: No. I did turn down my first girlfriend the first time we started to have sex, but that was more of a nerves thing.
3. If you could make love to yourself, would you?
Jayden: I’m not super attracted to myself, but I might. I do have nice breasts.
Richard: Nah, it’d be more fun to high five a lot while we tag teamed Jayden.
4. Cum, are you a fan? Explain and expound.
Jayden: Not particularly, actually. It has its sexiness, but I don’t want it all over me, in general. The best part is that I love pleasing Richard, so of course it’s great in that respect, but I like to get cleaned up relatively quickly when we’re done.
Richard: It’s sticky and slimy and irritating and it gets everywhere.
5. Does it creep you out to know that God is watching you as you’re fucking?
Jayden: Nope. If there’s a higher power that gave us this pleasure, they can watch all they want.
Richard: Sex isn’t even in the top 5 creepiest things I do for people to watch.
Bonus: Tell us something sexy that happened to you this week.
Jayden: Richard woke me up in the middle of the night for sex. I love when he does that. So much need and desire is sexy.
Richard: Yeah, I was really horny, and I couldn’t go back to sleep with a hard on.
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Boob Day is a celebration of chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. You can check out the link up over on aleapoffaith.uk. I snapped this picture while lounging at home.
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This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are about gettin’ off. When you need it, you just gotta get it anyway you can. (For those who are innocent babies “IT” is sex)
Gettin’ Off
1. Have you ever initiated a booty call?
Jayden: Yeah, in college.
Richard: Yeah. Mostly in college, I had an ex I had come over pretty regularly.
2. Have you ever accepted a booty call?
Jayden: Yeah, in college.
Richard: Probably? I tend to host more often than not, so I can’t think of a specific time.
3. Ever had a “friend with benefits” relationship? How long did it last? Are you still friends or acquaintances with that person? Are you still having sex with that friend?
Jayden: Yeah for sure. I’ve had many over the years, but none currently.
Richard: I’ve had a couple. The longest one lasted (off and on a bit) for several years. We’re still good friends (they were in my wedding), but we don’t fuck anymore.
4. Tell us about your best one-night stand, what made it so good?
Jayden: I don’t know if I’ve ever had a one night stand. I’ve had some people that I slept with once and then the relationship didn’t work out, but I don’t think that’s the same thing. The intention wasn’t to be one night.
Richard: I don’t think I’ve ever actually had a one night stand. I’m pretty sure everyone I’ve slept with I’ve been with at least twice.
5. When was your last one-night stand?
Jayden: Uhh, many years ago. I don’t even remember.
Richard: Never?
6. What’s the grimiest, dirtiest place that you’ve had sex?
Jayden: Movie theater bathroom, though it was just hand stuff, I think.
Richard: Dorm bathroom. It was a fairly clean though, since it was the locked family/handicapped one.
Bonus: What’s the one random thing you wish your friends knew about you?
Jayden: That I wish I had more confidence when I sing. I sing pretty well, and I like to sing karaoke and things, but I always feel awkward signing up.
Richard: That I have way too many knives/multitools, and I’d totally hook them up if they asked.
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Boob Day is a celebration of chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. You can check out the link up over on aleapoffaith.uk. I snapped this picture while in the outdoor shower at camp. It was a lovely day!
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This week’s TMI Tuesday theme and questions come from Bi and Bi.
Pain and Pleasure
1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?
Jayden: Both please. Sex with no pain is a rarity in our household.
Richard: More pleasure. I like some good sting from time to time though.
2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?
Jayden: Yes, sometimes. Anywhere (and I am ticklish everywhere).
Richard: Nope. I’m the tickler.
3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?
Jayden: Yeah, I think someone’s tickled me with feathers. It’s okay.
Richard: I’ve used a feather tickler a few times. It was okay.
4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?
Jayden: Yes please. Sensory deprivation is fun.
Richard: Yeah. And then I like trying to get it off to be a brat.
5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?
Jayden: Yes! Richard has taught me that I like sensation play…
Richard: I like using ice cubes. Wax play is fun too.
6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?
Jayden: Both, but I prefer being spanked.
Richard: Both
7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?
Jayden: Of course I do. And yes I have.
Richard: I don’t think I’ve ever had to use it, that’s mostly Jayden’s job.
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Boob Day is a celebration of chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. You can check out the link up over on aleapoffaith.uk. This is a lovely picture I snapped while lying in bed this morning. My bedroom is very bright in the mornings, thanks to two skylights.
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Looking back on our lives, we can have a mix of reactions to the things we’ve done. When it comes to sex, our memories can color us with pride, fondness, nostalgia, indifference, or all too often, regret.
This week’s TMI Tuesday questions delve into things that people typically regret later in life. How much do you regret, if at all, any of the following?
1. Do you regret how you “lost” your virginity? If yes, why and to whom would you have preferred to have lost it?
Jayden: So, I’m going to preface this whole post with the fact that I don’t actually believe in regrets, but there are definitely stories to tell…
I was too young when I lost my virginity. Like, way too young. I was 11. It was my choice. It was just stupid. My neighbor was a good friend and I had a huge crush on him, and well, he was my first. I got VERY lucky that I never got an STD and I later found out I couldn’t have gotten pregnant anyway, but I was lucky I didn’t. My life could have turned out very differently, but I’m glad it turned out the way it did.
Richard: No, it was fine. I lost it to a good friend and there was no trauma.
2. Have you ever lived a moment in your life where you said “Yeah, I’m not going to ever tell anyone about that.” Describe that moment or incident.
Jayden: I’m sure I have. The things that come to mind would be bathroom accidents. Embarrassing!
Richard: I don’t think so. I’m an oversharerer.
3. Do you regret having acted on a sexual impulse? If yes, please describe.
Jayden: Yeah. When I was with my ex, we met a couple and fooled around. They were super awkward. We should have just said no thanks.
Richard: I got catfished once.
4. Do you regret not having had sex with someone who you could have had sex? If yes, would you do it over and have sex?
Jayden: Yes. I had a partner when I was younger and we both didn’t want to initiate sex because we didn’t want the other one to think we were just interested in sex. That was when I learned to just be honest about what I wanted. (And I don’t think it would have changed anything in our non-relationship anyway.)
Richard: Not really. I can only think of one time, and I’m pretty sure it wouldn’t have wound up being a healthy relationship.
5. Do you regret not having asked out or tried to hook up with someone you really liked out of fear of rejection only to later learn that person wanted you, too? If yes, please describe.
Jayden: Yes. I had twins who were both interested in me. I’m sure it wouldn’t have worked out, but I had to choose between them and I was stuck in non-decision. By the time I decided, they’d moved on.
Richard: I didn’t find out that they liked me, but I do think we would’ve been compatible. I worked at a summer camp and had a crush on a guy. Never made a move on him (tried to get him to make one on me). Years later, I find out that he was actually pretty subby, and we had a lot of similar kinks. Oh well.
6. Do you regret having done a particular sex act? If yes, please describe.
Jayden: I don’t think so. I can’t think of anything.
Richard: Nope. I’m pretty boring this week.
Bonus: Do you regret not having told someone you love them? Romantic, not familial or friendship love.
Jayden: Nah, I don’t think so. I’m pretty open about my feelings.
Richard: I don’t think so. If anything, I’m too prone to saying it.
TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses.
The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions. And we’re finally caught up!
We have provided the answer, now you provide the question. For example:
Answer (given): 28 marbles. Question (you the blogger create): How many did she fit in her vagina?
1. Answer: My butt. Now you write the question for each answer given.
Jayden: What is the thing Richard likes to hit the most?
Richard: What is the best place to put a buttplug?
2. Answer: stiletto black leather pumps
Jayden: What would make my legs look long and sexy?
Richard: What piece of clothing is most likely to accidentally kill Jayden?
3. Answer: hard and stiff
Jayden: How does Richard wake me up on the best mornings? (Answer: by pressing his hard and stiff cock against my ass)
Richard: How would my spare t-shirt be if Jayden was gone for a month?
4. Answer: “By George I think he’s got it!”
Jayden: What do I say when I’m feeling sarcastic and cheeky.
Richard: What would I title a book about the Revolutionary War?
5. Answer: socks
Jayden: What does Richard wear two pairs of every day?
Richard: What piece of clothing is better the longer it is?
6. Answer: hole in the wall
Jayden: What is a gloryhole?
Richard: If Jayden was a part of a house, what would she be?
Bonus: Answer: I hid them there so you wouldn’t find them.
Jayden: What is the hidden compartment in my car?
Richard: What do I say when Jayden asks what I did with her clothes?
TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses.
The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.
Okay, so it’s not quite July, but we’re catching up!
The Comfort and Thrill of Sex
1. How do you feel about giving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?
a. I love it.
b. I enjoy it.
c. I’m ok with it.
d. I don’t really enjoy it.
e. I don’t enjoy it at all.
f. I have never given anal sex.
g. I have never given anal sex, but would like to start.
Jayden: C
Richard: A
2. How do you feel about receiving anal sex (penetration with penis, finger or sex toys)?
a. I love it.
b. I enjoy it.
c. I’m ok with it.
d. I don’t enjoy it at all.
e. I have never received anal sex.
f. I have never received anal sex, but would like to start.
Jayden: B
Richard: B
3. How do you feel about getting undressed in front of a new lover, for the first time, as he/she watches you?
a. It’s a turn on for me.
b. It turns me on a little bit.
c. I like it, but only because it gets him/her going.
d. It does nothing for me.
e. I don’t like doing it because I am shy.
f. I don’t like doing it because I think it’s immoral/improper.
Jayden: C (I get very nervous)
Richard: A
4. Do you express your sexual pleasure with moans, groans, sighs, and other noises (provided that you are actually turned on)?
a. Yes, each time I have sex (90-100% of the time).
b. Yes, on most occasions (70-89% of the time).
c. Yes, on some occasions (40-69% of the time).
d. Yes, on a few occasions (10-39% of the time).
e. Yes, but only on special occasions (1-9% of the time).
f. Never, not even when I am really turned on.
Jayden: A
Richard: B? Ask Jayden.
Jayden: Probably B. Richard doesn’t moan or grunt a lot, but he does talk sexy.
5. Do you talk to your partner in a sexually explicit way?
a. Talking dirty is one of our favorite activities.
b. Occasionally, I like to talk dirty with my partner, and I do it with ease.
c. I talk dirty with my partner, but it feels awkward.
d. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but I don’t dare for fear of being judged or ridiculed.
e. I would like to talk dirty with my partner, but she/he isn’t into it.
f. I don’t talk in such a way because I think it is inappropriate.
g. I don’t talk in such a way because I can’t bring myself to do it.
Jayden: B
Richard: B
6. What kind of animal do you most sound like when building to a climax?
a. quiet little mouse
b. low moaning wolf
c. screeching beluga whale
Jayden: B? I guess?
Richard: I know my O face is kind of fish-like, so I’ll say C.
Bonus: Which do you prefer comfort sex or thrill-seeking sex? Why?
Comfort seekers value deep intimacy, quiet engagement and trust over time of familiar relationships. For them sex is best as a safe, loving nurturing space.* Thrill seekers value wild energy, adventure and novelty; they are willing to try open relationships, testing themselves outside average sexual practices. These folks crave a place to push the boundaries of new experiences.*
Jayden: I like both. I’d like to say I’m not sure I could pick one, but I think I lean more toward the thrill seeking side.
TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.
1. I enjoy the idea that my partner wants to inflict pain on me that: a. makes me curious b. is titillating and sexually arousing c. that leaves me screaming and/or crying because that’s the way I like it
Jayden: Yes, yes, and yes. Please?
Richard: D. Makes me conduct a daring escape while
2. Do you like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating? If yes, please describe. If no, why not?
Jayden: Act, yes. Dress, no. I like being made to do things that makes me uncomfortable, if it pleases my Dom.
Richard: Not really. That’s what I have Jayden for.
3. Do you like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused during sex on either you or your partner? What kind of marks?
Jayden: YES. I LOVE bruises. I have two (one on each breast) right now. Bite marks and bruises are fun. (Also, PSA: bruises on your breasts can present like lumps during breast cancer screenings. Save yourself some stress and remember that when you do a breast exam!)
Richard: Bites are my favorite, but marks in general are fun.
4. Would you like to be forced to do sexual things that you don’t necessarily like to do? Yes or No.
Jayden: Yes. I like being forced to do things.
Richard: Only briefly before said daring escape and sassiness.
5. Do you want to be forced to watch your lover with someone else? Yes, No or It depends.
Jayden: Probably not. Never say never, and all that.
Richard: Nah.
6. What dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things do you like to say to your sexual partner?
Jayden: Nothing. I’m terrible at talking dirty, despite the fact that I’m good at writing it.
Richard: I never say anything inappropriate. All my perviness is above board!
Bonus: Finish this statement: I like being powerful in bed because __________ .
Jayden: (I don’t generally feel powerful in bed, but…) I feel powerful when I please my partner.
Most importantly it is the theme of this week’s TMI Tuesday. Tell us about your bed.
1. What size (King, queen, full, twin)?
Jayden: King
Richard: King
2. What mattress construction (conventional springs, air bed, water bed, Tempurpedic-type)?
Jayden: Spring/foam hybrid
Richard: I think this one is a spring/foam hybrid.
3. What type furniture (just a frame, headboard/footboard, canopy, trundle, etc)? Describe.
Jayden: I want a headboard, but we just have a frame.
Richard: Just a frame.
4. If your bed has headboard/footboard or bedposts, have you ever been tied to them? Ever tied anyone to them? For what purpose?
Jayden: No. Sadness.
Richard: No 😦
5. What kind of sheets (cotton, linen, silk, flannel)?
Jayden: Whatever Richard wants. But we found something we agree on.
Richard: PIMA (or similar long strand cotton) PERCALE OR BUST!
6. What kind of blankets (cotton, wool, thermal, electric)?
Jayden: Thick and soft. And I love my electric throw.
Richard: None
7. What’s on top (bedspread, duvet,…)?
Jayden: (What Richard says…)
Richard: Right now there’s just a cheap comforter on there, but I have some hand knitted afghans from my great aunt that I like to put on there.
8. What kind of pillow (down, foam, fiberfill)?
Jayden: I like down, but I’m pretty allergic to things, so I have a fake down pillow now, I think.
Richard: Foam and shredded foam combo, I believe.
Bonus: Fill in the blank and answer question.
If _____ comes over, will you let them fuck you on your bed? Yes or no.
Jayden: Pierce Brosnan. Yes.
Richard: Jeff Goldblum. Yes.
TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.
1. Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the opposite sex without anything steamy happening?
Jayden: Many times, though not recently. Some of them I was even dating at the time!
Richard: I once slept in the same bed as a girl I was dating because she was afraid her (shared) room was haunted. Either she was crazy, or I was a moron. Maybe both.
2. Have you ever streaked, flashed, or otherwise partially or totally exposed yourself in public before (or after) an informal, unofficial gathering of people?
Jayden: Yeah, but I was a teenager.
Richard: Yeah. This guy was like, “Woooo, take it off!” and I did. And then Jayden’s dad walked around the corner.
3. Have you had dates with multiple people in the same weekend (or consecutive nights or the same night) while not all of your dates were aware of your actions?
Jayden: I don’t think I ever did it without them being aware. Maybe as a teenager.
Richard: I don’t think so either.
4. What is the most “romantic” you have ever gotten in a movie theater?
Jayden: I fooled around in the bathroom of a movie theater once. Other than that, I haven’t gotten more than handsy.
Richard: I played with a remote vibe in a theater once.
5. Have you ever had sex when you knew a non-participating adult was watching?
Blankety Blank Complete the sentences by filling in the blanks.
1. I could spend all day _______ but couldn’t stand five minutes _______ .
2. I would love to have a robot in my house to do _______ because no one else ever does.
3. The older you get the more _______ you get.
4. I want to _______ when I _______ .
5. My appetite for _______ can never be satisfied.
Bonus: If I were a hoarder, I would hoard _______ .
Jayden:
1. I could spend all day reading but couldn’t stand five minutes cleaning.
2. I would love to have a robot in my house to do dishes because no one else ever does. (For the record, Richard does do them, but I do them more often because he cooks. I just want neither of us to have to do them! I honestly don’t think there are any chores only one of us does, though Richard tries to do all the cat chores since I’m allergic.)
3. The older you get the more sleepy you get.
4. I want to snuggle when I sleep.
5. My appetite for sweets can never be satisfied.
Bonus: If I were a hoarder, I would hoard books.
Richard: This hurts my brain.
1. I could spend all day in the lazy river but couldn’t stand five minutes on my head.
2. I would love to have a robot in my house to do the dusting because no one else ever does.
3. The older you get the more elderly you get.
4. I want to eat scones when I drink tea.
5. My appetite for SNUGGLES can never be satisfied.
Bonus: If I were a hoarder, I would hoard knives.
TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Complete the sentences by filling in the blanks.
J R Vincente 
