Didn’t you?
But nope! Here I am, keeping the streak alive.
Richard and I had a rare Friday evening with no particular plans. Should we have been unboxing things in our new house? Probably. But instead, we went on a date to see The Fall Guy. It was a rare movie that we BOTH enjoyed—quite a bit, I might add! It was very funny but with a great storyline and an amazing cast. I highly recommend it!
So thanks mostly to the A to Z Challenge (and Richard’s Sunday meet-cutes), I have over 30 days in a row of blog posts. I thought about letting it go today, but then I decided that no, I would really like to keep the streak going. I don’t know what exactly will happen or how long it will last, but I think I want to at least try to keep posting daily.
Things have been crazy busy in our personal lives, and kink has largely fallen by the wayside. I was very excited to get a short scene in the other night, though. Richard spent the evening while I was out texting me sexy things, leading to instructions to come directly to the bedroom when I got home and masturbate. I wish I were more surprised when he jumped out of the closet, but it was still sexy as hell. I have to admit that I was very close to orgasm from the slightest touch because I was so wound up. It was very fun, and may turn into a better story sometime. What have you done that’s kinky lately?
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Posted on April 1, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
The idea for this TMI Tuesday was ripped straight from my friend’s blog A Reluctant Bitch.
Your book should have at least 5 parts or chapters.
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Jayden:
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Posted on March 25, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
What are your five (5) most memorable/amazing sexual moments?
You may simply list them or elaborate on why they were so memorable.
Jayden (and parenthetical Richard):
Bonus: What is one quality you appreciate in a lover?
Jayden: Thoughtfulness.
Richard: A filthy mouth.
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Hey all, Richard checking in. Sorry for no updates for “Hallmark” this week or or week. Jayden and I are moving, and up to our eyeballs in boxes and packing tape. My hope is to have a longish update next week to close out The Valentine’s That Never Ends. The rest of April, I’ll do Meet Cutes for the various characters to go with the A to Z Theme. Thanks for your patience, and I’ll see you next week!
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Posted on March 18, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
1. What made the best sex partner you’ve ever had so good?
Jayden: He pays attention to my needs and my reactions. Mmm, so good.
Richard: Good noises!
2. What made the worst sex partner you’ve ever had so bad?
Jayden: He smelled bad.
Richard: Starfish!
3. Who was the most physically attractive person you ever had sex with?
Jayden: If you go with society’s definitions of attractive, probably someone in college. Emotion makes attraction for me, so Richard is the most attractive. ❤
Richard: I dunno, I feel like I’d have to have sex with them all at the same time or something to judge.
4. How was it?
Jayden: The guy in college wasn’t great. I don’t remember if he ever even got me off.
Richard: Most of them were pretty good.
5. Who was the least physically attractive person you ever had sex with?
Jayden: I think there was a guy I met in my brief swinger phase who was unattractive, mostly because he smelled.
Richard: Same as number 3.
6. Why did you do it?
Jayden: Great question! Weakness? Unwillingness to say no? I would just say no now.
Richard: I loved them or something?
7. How was it?
Jayden: Pretty terrible.
Richard: Probably ok.
Bonus: Describe a bad sexual experience you admit was your fault.
Jayden: I’m sure there were some really awkward ones in my previous marriage. We weren’t good at communicating, with each other or other people.
Richard: I had an ex who wasn’t super kinky. We had some bad anal, and I probably should’ve just stopped, but I was in “no safeword, no stop” mode. I feel kinda skeezy about it.
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Posted on March 11, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
TMI Tuesday was submitted by Swinging Gemma of Erotic Adventures blog. Thank you.
1. What is the most revealing thing you have ever worn in public?
Jayden: I once wore legit lingerie to a club in Boston. Very sexy.
Richard: How public? I’ve been naked in semi-public places a bunch of times. Other than that, I guess shorts? I’m a boy, so it’s pretty tame.
2. Have you ever unwittingly shown more than you intended in public due to a wardrobe malfunction?
Jayden: Yeah, in middle school. That one was NOT sexy, but I could see it being sexy as an adult.
Richard: I don’t think so.
3. Are you more likely to arrive at an event over or under dressed?
Jayden: Over. Although I wear sneakers a lot, I wear dresses a lot, too.
Richard: Under. I don’t like to dress up. I think I look silly.
4. Tell us about a time when you have arrived at a venue and immediately wished you could leave because you were dressed completely inappropriately?
Jayden: I can’t think of a time, honestly.
Richard: All the time.
5. What is the one thing that a lover/man/woman wears that you love with a passion?
Jayden: I love when Richard wears soft shirts that I get to touch. Like flannels. Passionate love. shrug
Richard: Wasn’t I not allowed to wear flannels at one point? I like Jayden’s “rape heels.”
6. What is the one thing that a lover/man/woman wears that you hate with a passion?
Jayden: Argyle knee-high socks with shorts. I dated a guy (briefly) who did that. Bleh.
Richard: I can’t think of anything.
Bonus: You and your friend are going to a special event and you know that he/she has spent a lot of time and possibly money on their outfit and are very excited about what they have created. They refuse to show you their outfit until you are both ready to leave for the event and you find that they look awful. What do you do?
Jayden: I don’t have a good fashion sense, so I’d probably keep my mouth shut and hope that I was in the wrong.
Richard: Knowing my friends, I’d assume it’s a bit and/or hipster thing.
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Posted on March 3, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
1. What did you give up for lent?
Jayden: I don’t do lent, so nothing.
Richard: I gave up giving up stuff.
2. What sexually could you never give up?
Jayden: This is a tough question. The obvious answer would be orgasms, but I think I would miss vaginal intercourse more.
Richard: Domming
3. What act would you like to do for 40 days and 40 nights?
Jayden: Snuggles!
Richard: SNUGGLES!
4. What sexual sacrifice have you made? Why?
Jayden: I gave up good anal for many years for the sake of my first marriage. So glad I get great anal now!
Richard: Jayden can’t cum from penetration, which is a shame. I love her, though.
5. Have you ever been tied to a cross or anything else?
Jayden: Yes, and I love it!
Richard: I like getting tied to chairs and wriggling out.
6. What part of your body do you like worshiped?
Jayden: Tits
Richard: Balls are probably my favorite, but cock, ass, or feet are good too.
7. What can your partner do to you that makes you feel true bliss?
Jayden: Orgasms. Richard’s fingers are magical.
Richard: The way Jayden’s ass squeezes my cock.
Bonus: Tell us about a time you were tempted. Did you give in or resist?
Jayden: The first time I kissed Richard, I wasn’t supposed to. But there he was, inches away from me, his body pressed close to mine. I couldn’t resist him, and I still can’t, years later.
Richard: I WAS TRYING TO BE RESPONSIBLE!
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Posted on February 25, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
1. Do you write/manage another blog?
Jayden: Yes, but as part of a team. I work with the A to Z Blog Challenge (coming up soon!)
Richard: Yes.
2. Pick 3 random blogs from your blogroll and tell us why they are on your blog roll.
Jayden: Molly’s Daily Kiss (fun and flirty), Coffee and Ink (more serious, but still fun), Anonymously Hal (short and sweet, makes me feel something)
3. Look around your blog, tell us about two pages or links you want us to visit, be sure to provide a link to them in your answer to this question.
Jayden: Welcome! Buy my books! Please? And A to Z 2017. This was when I did a run-through of my Choose Your Own adventure. It was awesome!
4. Do you have any unique interests that you have never shared before? What are they?
Jayden: I don’t think I have a lot of unique interests. Gaming (board games, RPGs), cross stitch, crochet, sex (duh), writing…
Richard: I read THE CLASSICS and blog about it.
5. What’s your current obsession?
Jayden: Cross stitch. I’m working on a custom piece for our new house.
Richard: Stormgate! It’s nice to finally get on the ground floor on an RTS.
Bonus: Has blogging helped or hurt your sex life?
Jayden: Helped, I think. It’s definitely opened my world up to more kinky things!
Richard: Probably helped. I’m sure there’s some kink we talked about because it came up on here.
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Posted on February 18, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
It’s TMI Tuesday time again.
Fill in the blanks.
1. I’m the type of person that likes to be _____ in bed.
Jayden: touched
Richard: SNUGGLED!
2. If the sexiest person I know propositioned me for sex, I would _____ .
Jayden: have a great time
Richard: learn about chaos theory.
3. The worst part about _____ when I am naked is _____ .
Jayden: sleeping, having to put clothes on in the morning
Richard: everything, when I stop being naked.
4. I regret my first _____ .
Jayden: time having sex. I was too young. (Disclaimer: I don’t actually believe in regrets, but if I did… I got suuuuper lucky that I didn’t get pregnant or any STDs. Dumb kid..)
Richard: college choice? It was awful. This phrasing makes it hard to think. I regret a lot of things.
5. The last sexual/kinky thing I expected to like was _____ .
Jayden: golden showers
Richard: taking pictures of my feet. It wasn’t super sexy, but it was fun to come up with different ways to pose and stuff.
6. Recently, I _____ someone.
Jayden: kissed (Richard)
Richard: SNUGGLED!
Bonus: You have been kidnapped by lesbians and dragged into a lesbian orgy, what are you going to do?
Jayden: Have a grand time, I imagine.
Richard: I guess I’m in charge of the snack table.
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We got a bit behind, but we’re catching up tonight!
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Posted on February 4, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
1. When you bought your bed frame, did you evaluate it in terms of ropes, handcuffs, etc?
Jayden: No, but we use the straps that go under the mattress, so they’re good on pretty much any bed.
Richard: We have a fancy tilty bed and a giant mattress, it was a lost cause.
2. Aside from beds, was sex ever a major consideration in choosing a piece of furniture?
Jayden: Not that I recall.
Richard: Nope.
Continue readingRichard took a little break from TMI Tuesday this week, so it’s just Jayden. 🙂
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1. Describe your or a lover’s penis with a movie title.
Richard’s Penis: Up (2009)
2. Describe your pussy or a lover’s pussy with a movie title.
Jayden’s Pussy: Meg 2: The Trench (2023)
3. Describe your last sexual encounter with a song title.
Jayden: Power Over Me
4. Describe your body with a song title.
Jayden: Body Like a Back Road
5. Describe your sexual appetite with a book, song, or movie title.
Jayden: Insatiable
Bonus: Recommend your favorite sexy, sensual, or kink-oriented book.
Jayden: Can I recommend any of mine?
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Richard took a little break from TMI Tuesday this week, so it’s just Jayden. 🙂
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Posted on January 21, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
Complete each sentence with an anecdote of sexual adventure or misadventure:
1. The first time I . . .
Jayden: …had sex, I was WAY too young. Like, way too young. I hit puberty early, and apparently, my sexual adventures started early, too. I think back to that time in my life and it is a miracle I never got an STD. (I’d say it was a miracle I didn’t get pregnant, but I later found out that I couldn’t get pregnant without medical help, so… still lucky.)
2. The last time I . . .
Jayden: …got caned was a few days ago. I love it. It’s one of my favorite things. Richard does a perfect job of balancing pleasure and pain. We should do it more often so I can build up my pain tolerance again so he can leave more bruises, but what he does is perfect.
3. The only time I . . .
…had an orgy was in this apartment. It was an accident. On Christmas Day.
4. My best . . .
Jayden: …feature is my ass. It’s big and round. Richard seems to like it.
5. My worst . . .
…sexual escapade was when my friend with benefits in college and I had sex on a bridge. Both of our roommates were around so we had nowhere to go. I faked an orgasm just to make him stop trying to get me off (though I appreciate that he tried), but the worst part was that we threw the condom over the bridge and he hit a car with it. That was his goal, even. It hit the front bumper so probably didn’t do anything, but it was a shitty thing to do.
BONUS: Everyone, however much experienced, still has some unfulfilled desires. What is at the top of your yet-to-do list?
A gang bang. Me a bunch of dicks. It’s probably my favorite porn to watch (not that I’ve watched much in recent years). I’m sure that it would be overwhelming and exhausting, but I think it would be a fun once in a lifetime experience.
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Oops, we had these answered on time, but I just forgot to post them. Enjoy!
~Jayden
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Posted on January 14, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
A bunch of celebrity sex tapes have been made public through fair means or foul. Have you seen any of these? Which ones?
Pamela Anderson and Bret Michaels
Paris Hilton and Rick Solomon
Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee
Kim Kardashian and Ray-J
Kendra Wilkinson and Justin Frye
Jayden: I never knew how to find them, and I never cared enough to figure it out.
Richard: I think I watched like 30 seconds of the Kim Kardashian and Ray-J one when it first came out, because that was the thing to do. I don’t remember thinking much of it.
Today’s TMI Tuesday topic is sex photography and video.
1. Did you ever pose for pictures in sexual situations, or take pictures of a lover?
Jayden: Yes, many times.
Richard: Same.
2. Did you keep these pictures private between yourselves, or did others see them?
Jayden: I’ve shared quite a few on Fetlife and other places years ago.
Richard: I shared a fair amount, but I think I’ve kept most of them private.
3. Did any of them ever get out in public with embarrassing results?
Jayden: No embarrassing results (that weren’t intentionally embarrassing)
Richard: Not that I know of.
4. Were you ever videotaped having sex?
Jayden: Yes, on actual tape! That one was bad because my parents found it. Whoops. I got grounded.
Richard: Yes. It’s gone now. Which is a shame, it was a fun scene to setup as a welcome back for the girl I was dating at the time.
5. If so, was the tape ever made public?
Jayden: Not public, thankfully.
Richard: No.
6. Were you ever photographed or taped without your knowledge?
Jayden: If I didn’t know then how would I know…?
Richard: Not that I know of. 😛
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On the 9th day of Christmas, we give you nine(ish) answers to TMI Tuesday Questions!
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Posted on January 7, 2013 by TMI Tuesday blog
The Late Phoenix provides us with his brand of thought-provoking TMI Tuesday questions this week. He has titled his submission
1. What feels better, the moment right before cumming, the moment of cumming, or the moment right after cumming?
Jayden: The moment of cumming.
Richard: Right before
2. For the fellas: it is said that guys will fuck anything that moves. but what if you’re a hippie who’s in love with the wind, how would that relationship work out?
Richard: I don’t think I understand this question. I guess you jerk off in a hurricane.
3. For the ladies: what would be your first gut reaction after the guy you’re on a first date with after months of online chatting looks you straight in the eye and whispers to you even before saying hi, “let’s fuck like rabbits…”?
Jayden: If it’s someone I’m into, hell yeah! Come to think of it, I think I had a friend with benefits like that at one point (>15 years ago).
4. There can only be ONE!!! okay, you have to choose EITHER your dream man/woman/lover/partner or your dream job, one or the other, not both. Which do you choose for the rest of your life and why?
Jayden: Dream partner. But I already found him, so maybe I have a shot at both? 🙂 But if I have to pick one, a job is a job. I’d rather have a partner who is supportive, loving, kind, and that I have fun with than a dream job.
Richard: My dream job is house husband, so I’ll go with dream partner so I can be house husband for them.
5. Is love itself, being in love, crazy? Or is the world crazy, and love serves to heal a crazy world? or is it that you’re crazy and the world is just fine? I guess what i’m asking from you is for a little treatise on the general topic of love and craziness. what is love?…baby, don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me…
Jayden: Love is crazy. It’s hard to explain. But it’s such a wonderful feeling.
Richard: The world is more crazy than love.
Bonus: If all of us in the blogging community pooled our resources together and chained our blogs in unison into one big shining electrical power line of humanity, could we save the world?
Jayden: I don’t think so. Maybe in 2013 when this was written the world had a chance of being saved, but now…
Richard: Probably not. I don’t think you could find much meaningful that the whole blog community could get behind.
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Here’s a sweet treat. 11 candies!
On the 9th day of Christmas, we give you nine(ish) answers to TMI Tuesday Questions!
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Questions submitted by Virtualsin.wordpress.com
1. Did you ever play strip poker (or strip spin-the-bottle, or similar)? Did nudity result? Were there further developments? Details please.
(1) Jayden: I did! I played strip war. Each round, someone lost an article of clothing. There were three people playing. It was…quick. So then it became more of truth or dare. The winner got to dare the loser to do something.
(2) Richard: I played strip poker like an hour before I lost my virginity Also, more recently, strip Mario Kart. Most of us wanted to strip, so that one was more silly.
2. Did you ever play a nude party game, such as Naked Twister? Did it lead to anything further?
Jayden: Nope.
(3) Richard: No.
3. Did you ever play a game of Truth or Dare that led to nudity, or fondling, or more?
(4) Jayden: Yep. I ended up giving a blow job on a dare. I think I even had sex on a dare, but it was with the guy I was sleeping with anyway.
(5) Richard: I don’t think so.
4. Did you ever attend a party that led to sex with a more or less randomly chosen partner, i.e., swingers-lifestyle party, key party*?
*key party – A couples party where all of the men put their car keys into a bowl or bag and at the end of the party, the women blindly select a set of keys to determine who she goes home with for the rest of the evening for sexual gratification.
Jayden: Nope.
(6) Richard: We had an accidental orgy at a Christmas party. I don’t know how random it is if everyone just plays with everyone.
5. Did you ever participate in unexpected co-ed skinny dipping in a group?
(7) Jayden: Yes, I skinny dipped at a friend’s pool party in high school. Richard and I had an accidental orgy on Christmas one year! We were hanging out with some friends who were all dating each other. Richard went to get a snack, and there was a blow job happening in our hallway.
(8) Richard: I don’t know how that story fits with this question and not the other. I have been co-ed skinny dipping a few times. I don’t know that it was unexpected, but it wasn’t specifically planned.
Jayden: Because it wasn’t random. They were friends we’ve had for a while. 🙂
Bonus: Do you have a favorite fantasy about a sexy party? Please share.
(9) Jayden: Yeah. I saw a porn once a decade or more ago where the submissive was serving dinner to a group of people. She was naked, they weren’t. There was something where they had a violet wand, and they “forced” her to touch it herself. Very much a mind-fuck and very sexy.
Richard: (Jayden “doesn’t like” denial or sensation play.)
Jayden: Shhhhh
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On the 8th Day of Christmas, which happens to be New Year’s Day, we’re going to share with you 8 goals we have for 2024:
Richard:
Jayden:
They aren’t resolutions, so to speak, but we do hope to keep working at these goals! Hope you all had a lovely New Year’s!
Happy New Year!
Here are 7 pineapples on our welcome mat. (But just so you know, we’re not swingers. We just like pineapples. At least, that’s what the sign says.)
Richard was hoping to treat you all to a picture of a nice loaf of sourdough bread with a 6 on it. But instead, he accidentally killed the starter. So you’re getting a list of what NOT to do with your sourdough starter instead:
See you tomorrow for Day 7!
J R Vincente 