Beautiful Day for a Wedding

Here’s a short story (maybe the beginning of more?) of a fun wedding day story!
~Richard


“Son of a bitch!” Chelsea yelled. Her maid of honor was supposed to be helping her finish her corset, but she’d had to step away because the caterer was on fire or some nonsense. It didn’t matter how many color coded checklists you triple checked, weddings never went according to plan.

She jumped when someone rapped on the door, one hand flailing to the makeup counter as she balanced in her heels. Putting them on first was a pain, but she’d never be able to do it fully laced.

“What’s, who is it? Just come in!” she said, watching the door in the mirror. Her heart froze when Mark swung it open and stepped in.

She spun around to face him, one hand behind her back gripping the counter hard enough to make her knuckles match her dress. “What’re you doing here?”

Mark smiled a little. Veering dangerously close to a smirk. His beard was a little greyer than she remembered. That was dangerous too. 

“Unless someone else is hiding in here,” he said, taking a step inside, “I think I’m going to help you into that corset.”

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The Insecure Writer’s Support Group #IWSG

The Insecure Writer's Support Group

If you’d like to chime in and let us know your answers to the questions or drop a link to your post if you’re participating, please do so in the comments! And check out the IWSG website for more answers! Happy anniversary to IWSG!

September 6th question: The IWSG celebrates 12 years today! When did you discover the IWSG, how do you connect, and how has it helped you?

We started in April of 2021 (https://jrvincente.com/2021/04/11/the-insecure-writers-support-group-iwsg/) I don’t remember where we came across it, but it was probably one of the many blogs I follow and try to keep up with. It’s been one of our most successful blog challenges. I’m pretty sure we haven’t missed a month yet! (And the fact that is the 30th one we’ve done and the 30th month since April 2021, that math checks out!)

I like having a prompt to answer. I’m always better when I have a plan to start me off. It’s been really nice having a community of people who also struggle sometimes. I will admit that I haven’t gone out and found that many people who do IWSG. I’m bad at that. Often I feel like I’m barely keeping my head above water with my blog between that and all the other things I do on a daily/weekly basis. It’s something I’m working on! I (and Richard) appreciate everyone who stops by my blog, though! The comments and likes are very much appreciated!

TMI Tuesday: September 5th, 2023

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.


TMI Tuesday: September 4, 2012

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions come from the wacky, inventive, and sexually creative mind of the late phoenix.

Cum, are you a fan?

1. We are all incurable sex addicts, but name one thing—a job, a passion, a creative outlet, a collection—of yours you use as a replacement, a distraction from constantly thinking about sex 24/7.

Jayden: Organization and spreadsheets

Richard: Swiss Army Knives

2. Have you ever loved somebody so much you thought having sex with them would actually sully the pristine purity of that love?

Jayden: I don’t think so. Sex is a big part of love for me.

Richard:  No. I did turn down my first girlfriend the first time we started to have sex, but that was more of a nerves thing.

3. If you could make love to yourself, would you?

Jayden: I’m not super attracted to myself, but I might. I do have nice breasts.

Richard: Nah, it’d be more fun to high five a lot while we tag teamed Jayden.

4. Cum, are you a fan? Explain and expound.

Jayden: Not particularly, actually. It has its sexiness, but I don’t want it all over me, in general. The best part is that I love pleasing Richard, so of course it’s great in that respect, but I like to get cleaned up relatively quickly when we’re done.

Richard: It’s sticky and slimy and irritating and it gets everywhere.

5. Does it creep you out to know that God is watching you as you’re fucking?

Jayden: Nope. If there’s a higher power that gave us this pleasure, they can watch all they want.

Richard: Sex isn’t even in the top 5 creepiest things I do for people to watch.

Bonus: Tell us something sexy that happened to you this week.

Jayden: Richard woke me up in the middle of the night for sex. I love when he does that. So much need and desire is sexy.

Richard: Yeah, I was really horny, and I couldn’t go back to sleep with a hard on.


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Happy TMI Tuesday!

Sexy Shorts #2

Welcome to another Sexy Short! Hope you enjoy it!
~Jayden

Topics: Mommy Domme

Don’t Stop

I lie on the couch watching TV when he comes home. As soon as he enters the room, he takes his jacket and tie off and quickly removes the rest of his outer clothes until he’s just in his boxers. I am wearing shorts and a T-shirt, with simple cotton panties and a bra underneath.

When he’s disrobed, he kneels on the floor in front of me. “Mommy?” he asks.

That’s our signal. When he’s come in from his high-powered job where he has to be in charge and directive all day, he wants to be taken care of at home. As a Domme, I have found that I’m best as a Mommy Domme. I’ve always been nurturing. This is just a manifestation of that. I know when he’s ready when he calls me Mommy. Of course, he isn’t my child. He’s my partner. We split the bills. We make plans together. The world sees us as this amazing power couple. But in the privacy of our no-kids home, he can be himself, and I can take care of him.

“Hi, baby,” I say, gesturing for him to sit on the couch beside me, swinging my legs to the side a little to let him get in with me.

He cuddles up next to me, and I wrap my arm around him.

“How was your day?”

“It was tough, Mommy.”

“That’s okay, baby. You’re home with me now.”

He nuzzles against my side. “Thank you for taking care of me.”

“Of course, baby.”

He keeps nuzzling against my chest, and I know what he wants.

“Do you need some comfort today, baby?”

“Yes, Mommy.”

He sits up a little as I strip my shirt over my head and unclip my bra. When I’m topless, I lay back against the couch, and we get into a position we’re in at least a few times a week. I’m mostly sitting up, and he lays on the couch with his head on a pillow in my lap so he can suck on my nipples.

Of course, I’ve never had a baby, so there’s no milk, but he still sucks at my nipples like there would be. It’s comforting to him and arousing to both of us. I let him lay there and suck on my nipple until it starts to get sore, then we switch to the other side. I know that I’m soaking through my panties, and I can see that his cock is hard inside his boxers.

When he’s done on that side, he rolls himself onto the floor and parts my legs. “I can smell you, Mommy.”

“Mmmhmm. You know what that does to me, baby.”

“Mmmhmm,” he mimics me, not in a belittling way.

“Are you going to clean me up?”

“Yes, Mommy,” he says, and he helps me get out of my panties and shorts. Then he gently presses me back against the couch and parts my legs so he can lick at my pussy. He licks everywhere. All the way down to my asshole, up to my clit, everywhere. All the juices I’ve been sitting in for the last half hour are now cleaned up, but I keep making more. I’m so turned on.

“Fuck, baby. You know how much I love that.”

“I know, Mommy,” he says, and he starts to lick my clit in earnest.

My orgasm starts to build almost immediately. It won’t take me long. I’m so aroused. “That’s it, baby, don’t stop. Fuck.”

He doesn’t stop. He doesn’t stop licking until I grab him by the hair and pull him off of me. And then he crawls up my body and starts sucking on my tender nipples again.

“Fuck,” I moan, holding him against me, not letting him stop as my orgasm sends shock waves through my body. “Don’t stop, baby, don’t stop.”

And he doesn’t. He’s such a good boy, pleasing me at every turn.


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Determined Dominatrix – Chapter 30

Welcome to Chapter 30 of my Determined Dominatrix Series! This is going to be our last chapter for this series unless you tell me that you want a Part 2! Let me know in the comments! Mistress will get to cum today, and we’ll see how they wrap up their last scene before he moves away. But there is more story we could tell. Do you want to hear about how James does when he’s away? How will they maintain a long-distance kinky relationship? Will she follow him to Massachusetts? How often will they visit? Tell me in the comments if you’d like me to write more! If you didn’t start at Chapter 1, there’s a Recap post after Chapter 20! Read on!
~Jayden


Chapter 30:

It’s not the most conducive position to cumming, being on my stomach, with James’ hand wrapped around my body, pressing against my clit, but I am so wound up, it’s not going to matter. And his cock in my ass. Mmmm. It’s fucking hot.

I press back against him with every thrust, squeezing his cock. I’m not sure how he hasn’t cum yet, but I’m sure we will both cum soon. I can feel my orgasm building as he rubs my clit.

“Oh god, pet. I’m going to cum.”

“Yes, Mistress, please cum. Please cum for me, Mistress. I want to feel your body spasm around me when you cum.”

He pumps harder and harder, rubs harder and faster, and my orgasm crashes over me in waves. I can’t stop shaking as the orgasm rocks my whole body. My ass is clenching around James’ cock, and just as I think I can’t take any more, his fingers slip off my clit, and his cock starts to spasm in my ass. I can feel the pulsing, and my orgasm just rolls on and on. “Fuuuuuck,” I groan, panting.

He collapses on top of me, and I find his hand with mine, intertwining our fingers.

He shifts, and I say, “Don’t you dare get up.”

“I won’t, Mistress.”

I have no idea how long we lay there on the cushions on the floor, his body pressing against mine. It feels wonderful to have him there on top of me. I don’t ever want to move. I think at some point, I drift off because the next thing I know, his soft cock is slipping out of my ass, and I am sure it wasn’t intentional on either of our parts.

“I’m sorry, Mistress,” he whispers against my neck.

“It’s okay, pet,” I whisper back. “Let’s go shower.”

He climbs off of me, disposes of his condom, and helps me to my feet. We walk to the bathroom together and shower, kissing over and over again, touching each other everywhere. I can’t get enough of him. Before I know it, he’s on his knees in front of me in the shower kissing my thighs, parting my legs, and licking my clit. I hold onto the grab bar as another orgasm rocks me, making me weak in the knees.

“Pet, please,” I groan, my fingers in his hair, but he’s robbed me of any more words. I don’t even know what I want. Stop. Don’t stop. I have no idea.

He licks along my slit as warm water pours down his back. And then he looks up at me, his face covered in my juices, and I sink down onto the floor of the shower with him, kissing him and tasting myself.

“I don’t want you to go.”

He swallows hard.

“You need to go. Don’t let me stop you. But I don’t want you to.”

He nods, and I wonder if he can’t speak. Words are hard.

“I will always support you, pet. Tomorrow, you go. Like you planned. And we’ll figure it out.”

He nods again, his arms wrap around me. He holds me tight to him, and I almost don’t hear the words over the sound of the spraying water. “I love you, Mistress, I love you.”

And I don’t know if he hears my words whispered back. I’m so afraid to say them, so afraid to feel them, but nevertheless, I feel the vibrations of my words against his skin as I whisper back, “I love you, too, pet.”


Thank you for reading Chapter 30 of my Determined Dominatrix series! If you liked this and you want more, please let me know, and I’ll start working on a second volume! Either way, be sure to come back for more kinky smut! Our Sexy Shorts are coming out all the time, and we have our TMI Tuesday posts answering a backlog of questions every week!

TMI Tuesday: August 29th, 2023

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.


TMI Tuesday: August 28, 2012

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are about gettin’ off. When you need it, you just gotta get it anyway you can.  (For those who are innocent babies “IT” is sex)

Gettin’ Off

1. Have you ever initiated a booty call?

Jayden: Yeah, in college. 

Richard: Yeah. Mostly in college, I had an ex I had come over pretty regularly.

2. Have you ever accepted a booty call?

Jayden: Yeah, in college.

Richard: Probably? I tend to host more often than not, so I can’t think of a specific time.

3. Ever had a “friend with benefits” relationship? How long did it last? Are you still friends or acquaintances with that person? Are you still having sex with that friend?

Jayden: Yeah for sure. I’ve had many over the years, but none currently.

Richard: I’ve had a couple. The longest one lasted (off and on a bit) for several years. We’re still good friends (they were in my wedding), but we don’t fuck anymore.

4. Tell us about your best one-night stand, what made it so good?

Jayden: I don’t know if I’ve ever had a one night stand. I’ve had some people that I slept with once and then the relationship didn’t work out, but I don’t think that’s the same thing. The intention wasn’t to be one night.

Richard: I don’t think I’ve ever actually had a one night stand. I’m pretty sure everyone I’ve slept with I’ve been with at least twice.

5. When was your last one-night stand?

Jayden: Uhh, many years ago. I don’t even remember.

Richard: Never?

6. What’s the grimiest, dirtiest place that you’ve had sex?

Jayden: Movie theater bathroom, though it was just hand stuff, I think.

Richard: Dorm bathroom. It was a fairly clean though, since it was the locked family/handicapped one.

Bonus: What’s the one random thing you wish your friends knew about you?

Jayden: That I wish I had more confidence when I sing. I sing pretty well, and I like to sing karaoke and things, but I always feel awkward signing up.

Richard: That I have way too many knives/multitools, and I’d totally hook them up if  they asked.


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Determined Dominatrix – Chapter 29

Welcome to Chapter 29 of my Determined Dominatrix series! We’re still in the middle of a hot scene with our resident Dominatrix and James. We didn’t make it to much aftercare last week, but maybe this week! If you haven’t been reading since Chapter 1, there’s a Recap post after Chapter 20! Check it out!
~Jayden


Chapter 29:

I can’t stop staring at his cock, and I keep my eyes glued to it as I bury my teeth against the soft flesh of his thigh. I bite lightly at first and then harder, sucking on his thigh to leave a nice mark. He moans, and I can feel him tensing beneath me. His hands grip the couch, which I can just see out of the corner of my eye. And his cock twitches with arousal. I want it buried deep inside my throat and then my pussy, and maybe my ass, but not yet. Soon.

When he’s starting to squirm enough that I’m concerned I’ll do real damage with my bite, I let up. I kiss up his other thigh, admiring the teeth marks embedded in his thigh. I repeat the process on the other thigh, in approximately the same location. I try to make them match.

He groans and moans but stays more still this time. When I let him up, his cock looks even harder than it was, though that could just be wishful thinking on my part. I just want him so much.

I gently kiss my way up to his balls, licking them slowly and sensually. His whimpers are not from pain now but arousal. When I lick up his shaft, he shudders. Fuck. I need him now. I can’t wait any longer.

I take his cock into my mouth, pushing it down the back of my throat until I gag. I keep going, over and over again, until my pussy is clenching so hard, and my nipples hurt with a need to be touched.

The condoms are just out of reach, so I stand up and get one, stripping my clothes off in the process. I slide the condom onto his cock impatiently. “Touch me, pet.”

He follows my direction without hesitation, his hands coming to my sides as I climb on top of him, directing his cock into my pussy. He guides my body up and down on his, but once we have a good rhythm going, his hands start roaming, touching my nipples, pinching lightly, scratching down my sides. It feels amazing, and I just want more. I ride him hard, and I’m sure it’s rough on his sore ass, but I don’t care at all.

“Mistress?” he asks.

“Yes, pet?”

“Can we change positions?”

“Why?”

“I want to get you off, Mistress. Please?”

I can’t argue with that. Not right now. My self-control has been shattered. I am devastated when he guides me off of his cock. I let out a whimper, and I can see the corner of his mouth tilt up.

He pulls the cushions off the couch and sets them on the floor, giving us a mat to have sex on without taking the time to put the sofa bed together. Somehow we’re in position without any words. I don’t even know how to describe how we did it without talking, but we do. I am on my hands and knees, and he’s behind me, ready to guide his cock into my pussy, when I pause him.

“Fuck my ass, pet.” It’s only the second time I’ve allowed him to fuck my ass, and he’s ready.

I push back against him as he enters my ass. I shudder, and tingles shoot through my body in the sexiest way possible.

He reaches around me and presses his fingers against my clit. I feel like my whole body is on fire now. His cock in my ass, his fingers on my clit. My senses are overwhelmed. I love it.

“Oh god, yes, yes,” I groan.

He is relentless. He must be holding back his orgasm because he fucks me slowly, putting effort into moving his fingers just the way I like it.

“Oh god, yes. Don’t stop.”

“I won’t, Mistress, not until you cum. I promise.”

I can feel his breath on my neck. I want him to cum. I want to cum. I’m overwhelmed with need.


Thanks for reading Chapter 29! You know she’s going to cum next time (well, we all certainly hope so!) Join us next week for the thrilling conclusion to the Determined Dominatrix story! If you want me to continue on to hear about his time away and how they work out their relationship, let me know in the comments, and maybe I’ll make a Determined Dominatrix Series Part 2! In the meantime, check out TMI Tuesday, where Richard and I answer past questions from TMI Tuesday and our Sexy Shorts just for fun!

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Sexy Shorts #1

Welcome to the first of our new series: Sexy Shorts!

(Yes, those are my shorts in that picture, on my body, even!)

I realized as I was reflecting on the blogs I read and the ones I love the most, and discovered that I love personal stories, short stories, photos,… quick things that I can digest and move on with my day. I love longer pieces when I have time for it, and I save them up (which is why many of you may have noticed me reading your A to Z pieces months late), but it’s nice to have shorter pieces that are fun and sexy. So that’s what we plan to share under this heading! As my long-time readers know, I like to write long stories. I feel that 10k-30k words is my sweet spot. More than a short story, less than a novel. Probably mostly in the novella range. For those of you who like longer pieces, I have plenty of those (my A to Z in 2017 comes to mind), and I have several novels for sale. But if you just want a bite-sized story, stick around!

Since many of these stories will feature content that could be uncomfortable for some readers, I plan to start each one with a list of topics so there are no (bad) surprises. 🙂
~Jayden

Topics: Anal, Biting, CNC (Consensual Non-Consent)

Just Relax

“No, no, no, no, please, no!” I whine as he presses his cock against my ass. “No, please, no, no.”

“Why not, slut? You love when I fuck you.”

“It’s going to hurt. You’re too big!” He is too big. My ass is tight, even though he fucks it regularly. It’s going to hurt when he fucks my ass. I’m terrified. Every time.

“You always like it in the end, slut.”

“No, please, no, please. I’ll suck your cock instead. Please.”

“You already sucked my cock, slut.”

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TMI Tuesday: August 22nd, 2023

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.


TMI Tuesday: August 21, 2012

This week’s TMI Tuesday theme and questions come from Bi and Bi.

Pain and Pleasure

1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?

Jayden: Both please. Sex with no pain is a rarity in our household.

Richard: More pleasure. I like some good sting from time to time though.

2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?

Jayden: Yes, sometimes. Anywhere (and I am ticklish everywhere).

Richard: Nope. I’m the tickler.

3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?

Jayden: Yeah, I think someone’s tickled me with feathers. It’s okay.

Richard: I’ve used a feather tickler a few times. It was okay.

4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?

Jayden: Yes please. Sensory deprivation is fun.

Richard: Yeah. And then I like trying to get it off to be a brat.

5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?

Jayden: Yes! Richard has taught me that I like sensation play…

Richard: I like using ice cubes. Wax play is fun too.

6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?

Jayden: Both, but I prefer being spanked.

Richard: Both

7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?

Jayden: Of course I do. And yes I have.

Richard: I don’t think I’ve ever had to use it, that’s mostly Jayden’s job.


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Determined Dominatrix – Chapter 28

Welcome to Chapter 28 of Determined Dominatrix! This time, we’ll get to see the culmination (maybe) of the beating James is taking as his Mistress gets ready to send him off on his trip with something to remember her by. If you haven’t been following since Chapter 1, check out the Recap after Chapter 20!
~Jayden


Chapter 28:

James is perfectly still as I beat him with the thick cane. He’s moaning and groaning just as I like, but he is being such a good boy. I pause for a moment to tell him so, running my hand along his back so I can whisper right into his ear. “You’re such a good boy.”

“Thank you, Mistress.”

I know he wants to ask if I’m almost done, but I’m not, so I don’t prompt him. I move back around behind him and increase the hits, thudding against his ass in a pattern he can count on. Light, light, light, heavy. Light, light, light, heavy. Light, light, light, heavy. Switch sides. Repeat. I am lulling him into a rhythm and gradually increasing so that the light hits are more on the heavy side, and the heavy hit is really hard. That’s what’s going to bring out the best bruises. I can’t wait to see them.

His muted moans are getting louder as my hits get harder, but I’ve brought him up so gradually that he almost didn’t notice.

“Good boy,” I croon as I hit him hard over and over and over again. “I’m almost done now.”

“Yes, Mistress,” he says.

“Count them for me, pet. Ten more.”

“Yes, Mistress.”

These are going to be hard, and he knows it. I can see him tense his muscles, but he counts as I hit.

“One, thank you, Mistress. Two, thank you, Mistress. Three, thank you, Mistress. Four, thank you, Mistress.”

I switch sides.

“Five, thank you, Mistress. Six, thank you, Mistress.”

I’m pleased I didn’t even have to tell him thank me.

“Seven, thank you, Mistress. Eight, thank you, Mistress.”

I switch back for one really hard hit on the right.

“Nine, thank you, Mistress.” His voice is strained, but he gets the words out.

I hit him the final time, just as hard on the other side.

“Ten, thank you, Mistress.”

His whole body sags against the spanking bench. He knows he’s done, though admittedly, sometimes I surprise him with a few extra hits, but not this time. “Good boy,” I say right against his ear, running my fingers through his hair. “Come here, good boy.” I help him to climb down off the spanking bench. I know his legs are feeling rubbery and maybe a bit numb after being on there for so long. I help him to lie down on the couch.

“Thank you, Mistress,” he murmurs.

“Of course, pet. Would you like some ice?”

“Yes, please, Mistress.”

I go to the adjoining kitchen, getting some ice out of the freezer. I put it in a small bowl and return to his side. I use a cloth to hold the cube as I run it over his ass. The welts are so red, and the bruises are just starting to show. It’s sexy as hell. “Good boy.”

“Thank you, Mistress,” he murmurs again. I smooth my free hand along his back.

“You’re welcome, pet.”

“Mistress,” he says, his voice barely audible.

“Yes, pet?”

“Bite me?”

I raise an eyebrow at him, even though he can’t see me with his eyes closed. “Where?”

“I don’t care, Mistress. I just want marks. Please, Mistress?”

I smile. I know he won’t want visible marks in his street clothes, even though he hasn’t specified. His thighs and ass are the best places for that. His ass will be bruised enough, I think. “Roll over, pet.” I help him roll as he moves gingerly.

When he’s settled on his back, I spread his legs and kiss up and down his inner thighs. His cock gets hard immediately. I have to resist the urge to suck it right now. I want to mark him first. And then I probably will suck his cock, and maybe ride his cock. I don’t know, but I’m starting to get desperately horny myself. I lick my lips as I look down at his hard cock. God, he’s hard to resist. What am I going to do without him?


Thanks for reading Chapter 28! Guess we didn’t get to much aftercare yet, hmm. Ah well. Good things come to those who wait! Maybe next week. Come back for TMI Tuesday, stay tuned for some fun short scenes, and come back next week to hear about some bite marks! And get ready for our Sexy Shorts debuting this week!

Go on to Chapter 29!

TMI Tuesday: August 15th, 2023

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.


TMI Tuesday: August 14, 2012

Posted on August 13, 2012 by TMI Tuesday blog

Thank you to ‘Rants from the Erotic Rogue‘ for this week’s TMI Tuesday.

Any Regrets?

Looking back on our lives, we can have a mix of reactions to the things we’ve done. When it comes to sex, our memories can color us with pride, fondness, nostalgia, indifference, or all too often, regret.

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions delve into things that people typically regret later in life. How much do you regret, if at all, any of the following?

1. Do you regret how you “lost” your virginity? If yes, why and to whom would you have preferred to have lost it?

Jayden: So, I’m going to preface this whole post with the fact that I don’t actually believe in regrets, but there are definitely stories to tell…

I was too young when I lost my virginity. Like, way too young. I was 11. It was my choice. It was just stupid. My neighbor was a good friend and I had a huge crush on him, and well, he was my first. I got VERY lucky that I never got an STD and I later found out I couldn’t have gotten pregnant anyway, but I was lucky I didn’t. My life could have turned out very differently, but I’m glad it turned out the way it did.

Richard: No, it was fine. I lost it to a good friend and there was no trauma.

2. Have you ever lived a moment in your life where you said “Yeah, I’m not going to ever tell anyone about that.” Describe that moment or incident.

Jayden: I’m sure I have. The things that come to mind would be bathroom accidents. Embarrassing!

Richard: I don’t think so. I’m an oversharerer.

3. Do you regret having acted on a sexual impulse? If yes, please describe.

Jayden: Yeah. When I was with my ex, we met a couple and fooled around. They were super awkward. We should have just said no thanks.

Richard: I got catfished once.

4. Do you regret not having had sex with someone who you could have had sex? If yes, would you do it over and have sex?

Jayden: Yes. I had a partner when I was younger and we both didn’t want to initiate sex because we didn’t want the other one to think we were just interested in sex. That was when I learned to just be honest about what I wanted. (And I don’t think it would have changed anything in our non-relationship anyway.)

Richard: Not really. I can only think of one time, and I’m pretty sure it wouldn’t have wound up being a healthy relationship.

5. Do you regret not having asked out or tried to hook up with someone you really liked out of fear of rejection only to later learn that person wanted you, too? If yes, please describe.

Jayden: Yes. I had twins who were both interested in me. I’m sure it wouldn’t have worked out, but I had to choose between them and I was stuck in non-decision. By the time I decided, they’d moved on.

Richard: I didn’t find out that they liked me, but I do think we would’ve been compatible. I worked at a summer camp and had a crush on a guy. Never made a move on him (tried to get him to make one on me). Years later, I find out that he was actually pretty subby, and we had a lot of similar kinks. Oh well.

6. Do you regret having done a particular sex act? If yes, please describe.

Jayden: I don’t think so. I can’t think of anything.

Richard: Nope. I’m pretty boring this week.

Bonus: Do you regret not having told someone you love them? Romantic, not familial or friendship love.

Jayden: Nah, I don’t think so. I’m pretty open about my feelings.

Richard: I don’t think so. If anything, I’m too prone to saying it.


TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses.

Happy TMI Tuesday!

Boob Day #2

Text: Boob Day
Image: A breast with the nipple covered with a flower

Boob Day!

What is Boob Day, some of you might be wondering?

Boob Day is a celebration of chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. You can check out the link up over on aleapoffaith.uk. This week, for only my second posting, I am sharing a picture I snapped at Richard’s request in the bathroom at a festival. I only had a moment to capture this picture as there was a line, or I might have tried a different angle with the shadow running straight down the middle, but ah well! If you caught last week’s picture, the same bruise is still visible as I took these pictures only a day apart. 🙂

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Determined Dominatrix – Chapter 27

Welcome to Chapter 27 of my Determined Dominatrix series! We’re right in the middle of our resident Dominatrix leaving beautiful marks on her submissive’s ass before he goes away for an extended time. If you didn’t start back at Chapter 1, there is a Recap post after Chapter 20!
~Jayden


Chapter 27:

It’s time to get the canes. I have so many, but there are two that I’m most interested in for this particular scene. The first one is going to be a nice sharp pain, and it will also leave welts. The second one is what will give those nice deep bruises we’re both looking for.

But I want to hear him scream first.

I look at the beautiful display of canes on the wall. There’s a rack where they are all on display like pool cues at a bar, but they range in size from thicker than my thumb down to smaller than a pencil. I pick one that’s on the smaller size and go back over to him.

I lay it across his bare back perpendicular to his spine and gently roll it down the length of his body. He whimpers. He knows this cane. He hates and loves this cane. I love it.

When I reach his ass, I pick the cane back up and flick him lightly across his ass, hitting both sides. He moans, but his moans turn to screams as I start hitting him harder. I know how sharp the pain is from this thin cane. The welts appear immediately, connecting the welts on the sides I left with the dragon tail. His whole ass is red. He’s still screaming, even though I’ve stopped. I walk around to stand in front of him, running my free hand along his back.

“Shhh, pet, it’s okay.” I stroke his hair softly, shushing him. His screams turn to whimpers as I pet him. “Are you okay, pet?”

“Y-yes, Mistress.”

“Do you want me to switch to the heavy cane, pet?”

“W-whatever you want, Mistress.”

I’m certain that’s a yes, but he’s still telling me I can do whatever I want, which is good. That means I’m not pushing his limits. Yet. “Good.”

I move back around behind him, running my hand along his spine as I go. I hit him a few more times with the small cane, but not as hard as I had before. He doesn’t scream quite as loud, but he’s still screaming when I stop.

I run my fingers lightly across the welts on his ass. “How are you feeling now, pet?”

“G-good, Mistress. T-thank you.”

“Good. These welts are beautiful, pet.”

“T-thank you, Mistress.”

I walk over to the side table and pick up my phone, taking a picture to show him. He looks at it obediently, nodding when I ask if he likes how red his ass is.

“Now to make it purple,” I say with a smile.

I place the thin cane aside and select one of the thicker ones. It’s not super long, so it won’t be too draining for me to swing it over and over again, but it’s thick enough that it will give a good thump and bruise nicely.

I run it along his back and over his ass like I did with the other one. I drag this one along his thighs as well, really teasing him. He is whimpering, and I’m sure his heart is still thumping hard, but he is calm and steady on the spanking bench. Looking back, I’m sure he couldn’t have handled this long of a beating a year ago, but we’ve been doing them so often that he’s able to stay in this position with no issues. I’m proud of my pet.

Here we go, I think, as I pull back my arm and bring down the first blow. It’s not too hard. He’s nice and warmed up, but I still don’t want to come right out of the gate with a super hard blow. I get just the reaction I was looking for.

His groan is a deep sound coming up from deep within him. As I hit him again and again, there are no screams, no fidgeting. He’s sunk deep into sub-space now, and he groans and almost presses his ass back toward me eagerly, even though he’s being very careful to be nice and still.

These hits won’t leave bruises yet, but we’re getting there. And I just love the way he’s moaning. All those little sounds. It’s sexy as hell.


Thanks for reading Chapter 27! Come back next week for Chapter 28, where we’ll hopefully see some nice purple bruises. And is it almost time for some sweet aftercare? Let us know how you’re liking our Determined Dominatrix series! Do you want us to continue on to James’ time in Massachusetts? Let us know in the comments!

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TMI Tuesday: August 8th, 2023

The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions. And we’re finally caught up!


TMI Tuesday: August 7, 2012

What’s The Question?

We have provided the answer, now you provide the question. For example:

Answer (given): 28 marbles.  Question (you the blogger create): How many did she fit in her vagina?

1. Answer: My butt. Now you write the question for each answer given.

Jayden: What is the thing Richard likes to hit the most?

Richard: What is the best place to put a buttplug?

2. Answer: stiletto black leather pumps

Jayden: What would make my legs look long and sexy?

Richard: What piece of clothing is most likely to accidentally kill Jayden?

3. Answer: hard and stiff

Jayden: How does Richard wake me up on the best mornings? (Answer: by pressing his hard and stiff cock against my ass)

Richard: How would my spare t-shirt be if Jayden was gone for a month?

4. Answer: “By George I think he’s got it!”

Jayden: What do I say when I’m feeling sarcastic and cheeky.

Richard: What would I title a book about the Revolutionary War?

5. Answer: socks

Jayden: What does Richard wear two pairs of every day?

Richard: What piece of clothing is better the longer it is?

6. Answer: hole in the wall

Jayden: What is a gloryhole?

Richard: If Jayden was a part of a house, what would she be?

Bonus: Answer: I hid them there so you wouldn’t find them.

Jayden: What is the hidden compartment in my car?

Richard: What do I say when Jayden asks what I did with her clothes?


TMI Tuesday along with us: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses.

Happy TMI Tuesday!

Boob Day – A first for me

Text: Boob Day
Image: A breast with the nipple covered with a flower

Boob Day!

What is Boob Day, some of you might be wondering?

Boob Day is a celebration of chests and breasts of all shapes and sizes. There’s a link up here that you should definitely check out. I’ve been seeing it from afar for a while now, and I thought… well, why not? I am not always body positive about myself, so this is a great opportunity to start to change that internal narrative for me. Those of you who have been around a while might know that this is only the second photo of myself I’ve ever shared and the first ever nude. (I’m featured on a book cover I designed a while back, but that book isn’t currently on the market.) If you’re participating in Boob Day, feel free to drop your links in the comments, too!

I hope you enjoy this photo of my chest, bathed in morning light, and sporting the remnants of a delightful little bruise Richard gave me a few days ago. I snapped this picture so early in the morning, you can even see some lines left from the sheets. Hope you have a lovely day!

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Determined Dominatrix – Chapter 26

Welcome back to Chapter 26 of my Determined Dominatrix story! (Sorry it’s a day late!) It’s James’ and Mistress’ last time together before he moves, and she’s promised him some marks to take with him on his trip. If you aren’t caught up, you can check out the Recap for Chapters 1-20 or start back at Chapter 1!
~Jayden


Chapter 26:

The room is filled with implements of every imaginable size and shape. Some are soft and can be used sensually. Some are harsh. I have seen many less experienced people’s eyes widen when they see this play space. I love that look. Introducing people to all the possibilities in the realm of impact play is an incredibly powerful feeling. But now it’s just my pet and me. He’s seen all of these toys. I don’t think I’ve used all of them on him. There are literally over a hundred. (Though that would be a fun scene to do with him…) But for the moment, I am prioritizing leaving marks for his strip tomorrow.

I choke back the tears that threaten to fall again and move to one of the many baskets of toys. I select a piece of rolled-up leather. It’s sort of like a dragon’s tail but truncated. It won’t leave marks, but it will be a great warm-up. I stand behind James and run the leather across his ass.

“Are you ready, pet?”

“Yes, Mistress.”

“What do you want, pet?”

“I want you to mark me, Mistress.”

“Why, pet?” I know we’ve gone over all of this before, but it’s sexy to hear him saying it right as I’m about to beat him.

“I want to have marks when I leave, Mistress.”

I know that his heart must be pounding with excitement. Mine is. “How many marks, pet?”

“As many as you want, Mistress. Make my whole ass black and blue.” He whimpers at the thought, and I can feel my pussy getting wet with arousal. I love to hear him whimper. The whole time we’re talking, I keep caressing his ass and lower back with the leather thumper. He knows what it is. It’s one of my favorite implements. It makes a good sound. The sensation heightens the anticipation.

I pull back and lay the first hit on the right side. He groans. Another follows. Another. Each hit is met with a groan or a whimper. I love it. I can’t wait for more. Then I switch to the left side. He is starting to squirm a little, which is good. He hasn’t sunk deeply into sub-space yet, but he will. Once he does, he moves less. Right now, he’s still too hyped up to be totally still. “Pet,” I admonish. “Stay still.”

“Yes, Mistress,” he says, but he struggles with it.

I do see that he’s moving a lot less, though.

After a while, I switch back to the other side and then alternate. When I’m satisfied that he’s warmed up, he’s barely moaning or whimpering when I hit him. It’s time for something more.

I set the thumper aside and select a dragon tail. The end of it will certainly leave marks. I have to be more careful with this implement, and I need him to stay still, which is why I don’t like to start with it. I crack the dragon tail like a whip in the air, and he flinches but doesn’t move. “Good boy,” I praise, “You know you need to stay still when I hit you with this.”

“Yes, Mistress,” he says, and I can see his muscles tensing.

The first strike lands across his ass with perfect placement of the sharp tip. He moans loudly but doesn’t move. A red welt rises up immediately where I hit him. I know it’s a sharp pain, and I know he loves it. I switch sides and land another one in the same place on the other side. I can’t go as quickly with this one as I do with some other implements, but the red welts are so sexy. It’s worth taking my time.

He’s whimpering and crying so much, though. My heart goes out to him, but seeing him in this much pain turns me on. I want to inflict more. And I know that he loves it.

“How are you doing, pet?” I ask when I set the dragon tail aside.

“Good, Mistress.”

“I’m not hurting you too much, am I, pet?” I croon.

“No, Mistress.”

“Good,” I say. “These welts aren’t going to stick around long. I want some good deep bruises for you to take with you.”

“Please, Mistress?” he whispers.

“Are you embarrassed to ask for bruises, pet?”

“No, Mistress.”

“Good,” I say. “Then ask louder.”

“Please, Mistress,” he says louder. Very obedient boy.

“Please what, pet?”

“Please bruise my ass, Mistress. I want to be so black and blue I can’t sit for a week.”

“Only a week?” I tease.

“As long as you want, Mistress. Please!” He’s sounding desperate now. Just how I like him.


Thanks for reading Chapter 26! Come back next week to find out what she’s going to use to turn his ass black and blue. Don’t forget TMI Tuesday coming up every Tuesday with historical questions answered by both Richard and me. And keep your eye out for a new pop-up feature: Sexy Shorts! Short scenes that are a little sexy and often kinky. (I know, I know, I can never write short scenes. But I’m going to give it a try. I think some very sensory, sexy scenes with no backstory can be fun!) Tell us in the comments what kinks you’d love to see featured in our new Sexy Shorts!

Go on to Chapter 27!

The Insecure Writer’s Support Group #IWSG

The Insecure Writer's Support Group

If you’d like to chime in and let us know your answers to the questions or drop a link to your post if you’re participating, please do so in the comments! And check out the IWSG website for more answers!

August 2 question: Have you ever written something that afterwards you felt conflicted about? If so, did you let it stay how it was, take it out, or rewrite it?

Jayden: Yes! My first published novel is titled Slave. The main character is a submissive whose only name in the entire novel is Slave. She has no other name (and doesn’t want or need one). It’s a huge fantasy of mine, and I loved writing the novel. But looking back at it, I feel like it’s not an appropriate title given the history of the term. But I can’t just re-title the book. I would literally have to change the whole novel. So…I just took it off the market a while back. As it was my first published novel, I’m a better writer now anyway. What do you think? Should I put it back on the market?

Richard: Not in any kind of a professionalish context. I did some very weird prompts and roleplays over the years that I felt kind of icky about. I didn’t really do anything as a response, I think they’ve all just disappeared into the digital ether.