The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2013, and now we’re back on the same date, even! So here we are with an archived set of questions.
This week’s TMI Tuesday questions were created by an anonymous blogger and lurker. He has submitted four great sets of questions and this week’s theme– THE GOOD, THE BAD AND THE UGLY– is no exception. Thank you Anonymous#1 🙂
1. What made the best sex partner you’ve ever had so good?
Jayden: He pays attention to my needs and my reactions. Mmm, so good.
Richard: Good noises!
2. What made the worst sex partner you’ve ever had so bad?
Jayden: He smelled bad.
Richard: Starfish!
3. Who was the most physically attractive person you ever had sex with?
Jayden: If you go with society’s definitions of attractive, probably someone in college. Emotion makes attraction for me, so Richard is the most attractive. ❤
Richard: I dunno, I feel like I’d have to have sex with them all at the same time or something to judge.
4. How was it?
Jayden: The guy in college wasn’t great. I don’t remember if he ever even got me off.
Richard: Most of them were pretty good.
5. Who was the least physically attractive person you ever had sex with?
Jayden: I think there was a guy I met in my brief swinger phase who was unattractive, mostly because he smelled.
Richard: Same as number 3.
6. Why did you do it?
Jayden: Great question! Weakness? Unwillingness to say no? I would just say no now.
Richard: I loved them or something?
7. How was it?
Jayden: Pretty terrible.
Richard: Probably ok.
Bonus: Describe a bad sexual experience you admit was your fault.
Jayden: I’m sure there were some really awkward ones in my previous marriage. We weren’t good at communicating, with each other or other people.
Richard: I had an ex who wasn’t super kinky. We had some bad anal, and I probably should’ve just stopped, but I was in “no safeword, no stop” mode. I feel kinda skeezy about it.
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The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2013, and now we’re back on the same date, even! So here we are with an archived set of questions.
TMI Tuesday was submitted by Swinging Gemma of Erotic Adventures blog. Thank you.
FASHION POLICE
1. What is the most revealing thing you have ever worn in public?
Jayden: I once wore legit lingerie to a club in Boston. Very sexy.
Richard: How public? I’ve been naked in semi-public places a bunch of times. Other than that, I guess shorts? I’m a boy, so it’s pretty tame.
2. Have you ever unwittingly shown more than you intended in public due to a wardrobe malfunction?
Jayden: Yeah, in middle school. That one was NOT sexy, but I could see it being sexy as an adult.
Richard: I don’t think so.
3. Are you more likely to arrive at an event over or under dressed?
Jayden: Over. Although I wear sneakers a lot, I wear dresses a lot, too.
Richard: Under. I don’t like to dress up. I think I look silly.
4. Tell us about a time when you have arrived at a venue and immediately wished you could leave because you were dressed completely inappropriately?
Jayden: I can’t think of a time, honestly.
Richard: All the time.
5. What is the one thing that a lover/man/woman wears that you love with a passion?
Jayden: I love when Richard wears soft shirts that I get to touch. Like flannels. Passionate love. shrug
Richard: Wasn’t I not allowed to wear flannels at one point? I like Jayden’s “rape heels.”
6. What is the one thing that a lover/man/woman wears that you hate with a passion?
Jayden: Argyle knee-high socks with shorts. I dated a guy (briefly) who did that. Bleh.
Richard: I can’t think of anything.
Bonus: You and your friend are going to a special event and you know that he/she has spent a lot of time and possibly money on their outfit and are very excited about what they have created. They refuse to show you their outfit until you are both ready to leave for the event and you find that they look awful. What do you do?
Jayden: I don’t have a good fashion sense, so I’d probably keep my mouth shut and hope that I was in the wrong.
Richard: Knowing my friends, I’d assume it’s a bit and/or hipster thing.
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Jayden: This is a tough question. The obvious answer would be orgasms, but I think I would miss vaginal intercourse more.
Richard: Domming
3. What act would you like to do for 40 days and 40 nights?
Jayden: Snuggles!
Richard: SNUGGLES!
4. What sexual sacrifice have you made? Why?
Jayden: I gave up good anal for many years for the sake of my first marriage. So glad I get great anal now!
Richard: Jayden can’t cum from penetration, which is a shame. I love her, though.
5. Have you ever been tied to a cross or anything else?
Jayden: Yes, and I love it!
Richard: I like getting tied to chairs and wriggling out.
6. What part of your body do you like worshiped?
Jayden: Tits
Richard: Balls are probably my favorite, but cock, ass, or feet are good too.
7. What can your partner do to you that makes you feel true bliss?
Jayden: Orgasms. Richard’s fingers are magical.
Richard: The way Jayden’s ass squeezes my cock.
Bonus: Tell us about a time you were tempted. Did you give in or resist?
Jayden: The first time I kissed Richard, I wasn’t supposed to. But there he was, inches away from me, his body pressed close to mine. I couldn’t resist him, and I still can’t, years later.
Richard: I WAS TRYING TO BE RESPONSIBLE!
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3. Look around your blog, tell us about two pages or links you want us to visit, be sure to provide a link to them in your answer to this question.
Jayden:Welcome! Buy my books! Please? And A to Z 2017. This was when I did a run-through of my Choose Your Own adventure. It was awesome!
4. Do you have any unique interests that you have never shared before? What are they?
Jayden: I don’t think I have a lot of unique interests. Gaming (board games, RPGs), cross stitch, crochet, sex (duh), writing…
Richard: I read THE CLASSICS and blog about it.
5. What’s your current obsession?
Jayden: Cross stitch. I’m working on a custom piece for our new house.
Richard: Stormgate! It’s nice to finally get on the ground floor on an RTS.
Bonus: Has blogging helped or hurt your sex life?
Jayden: Helped, I think. It’s definitely opened my world up to more kinky things!
Richard: Probably helped. I’m sure there’s some kink we talked about because it came up on here.
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1. I’m the type of person that likes to be _____ in bed.
Jayden: touched
Richard: SNUGGLED!
2. If the sexiest person I know propositioned me for sex, I would _____ .
Jayden: have a great time
Richard: learn about chaos theory.
3. The worst part about _____ when I am naked is _____ .
Jayden: sleeping, having to put clothes on in the morning
Richard: everything, when I stop being naked.
4. I regret my first _____ .
Jayden: time having sex. I was too young. (Disclaimer: I don’t actually believe in regrets, but if I did… I got suuuuper lucky that I didn’t get pregnant or any STDs. Dumb kid..)
Richard: college choice? It was awful. This phrasing makes it hard to think. I regret a lot of things.
5. The last sexual/kinky thing I expected to like was _____ .
Jayden: golden showers
Richard: taking pictures of my feet. It wasn’t super sexy, but it was fun to come up with different ways to pose and stuff.
6. Recently, I _____ someone.
Jayden: kissed (Richard)
Richard: SNUGGLED!
Bonus: You have been kidnapped by lesbians and dragged into a lesbian orgy, what are you going to do?
Jayden: Have a grand time, I imagine.
Richard: I guess I’m in charge of the snack table.
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We got a bit behind, but we’re catching up tonight!
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Richard took a little break from TMI Tuesday this week, so it’s just Jayden. 🙂
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1. Describe your or a lover’s penis with a movie title.
Richard’s Penis: Up (2009)
2. Describe your pussy or a lover’s pussy with a movie title.
Jayden’s Pussy: Meg 2: The Trench (2023)
3. Describe your last sexual encounter with a song title.
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Richard took a little break from TMI Tuesday this week, so it’s just Jayden. 🙂
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Thanks to an anonymous TMI Tuesday fan and lurker for this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.
Complete each sentence with an anecdote of sexual adventure or misadventure:
1. The first time I . . .
Jayden: …had sex, I was WAY too young. Like, way too young. I hit puberty early, and apparently, my sexual adventures started early, too. I think back to that time in my life and it is a miracle I never got an STD. (I’d say it was a miracle I didn’t get pregnant, but I later found out that I couldn’t get pregnant without medical help, so… still lucky.)
2. The last time I . . .
Jayden: …got caned was a few days ago. I love it. It’s one of my favorite things. Richard does a perfect job of balancing pleasure and pain. We should do it more often so I can build up my pain tolerance again so he can leave more bruises, but what he does is perfect.
3. The only time I . . .
…had an orgy was in this apartment. It was an accident. On Christmas Day.
4. My best . . .
Jayden: …feature is my ass. It’s big and round. Richard seems to like it.
5. My worst . . .
…sexual escapade was when my friend with benefits in college and I had sex on a bridge. Both of our roommates were around so we had nowhere to go. I faked an orgasm just to make him stop trying to get me off (though I appreciate that he tried), but the worst part was that we threw the condom over the bridge and he hit a car with it. That was his goal, even. It hit the front bumper so probably didn’t do anything, but it was a shitty thing to do.
BONUS: Everyone, however much experienced, still has some unfulfilled desires. What is at the top of your yet-to-do list?
A gang bang. Me a bunch of dicks. It’s probably my favorite porn to watch (not that I’ve watched much in recent years). I’m sure that it would be overwhelming and exhausting, but I think it would be a fun once in a lifetime experience.
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Oops, we had these answered on time, but I just forgot to post them. Enjoy! ~Jayden
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A bunch of celebrity sex tapes have been made public through fair means or foul. Have you seen any of these? Which ones?
Pamela Anderson and Bret Michaels Paris Hilton and Rick Solomon Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee Kim Kardashian and Ray-J Kendra Wilkinson and Justin Frye
Jayden: I never knew how to find them, and I never cared enough to figure it out.
Richard: I think I watched like 30 seconds of the Kim Kardashian and Ray-J one when it first came out, because that was the thing to do. I don’t remember thinking much of it.
Today’s TMI Tuesday topic is sex photography and video.
1. Did you ever pose for pictures in sexual situations, or take pictures of a lover?
Jayden: Yes, many times.
Richard: Same.
2. Did you keep these pictures private between yourselves, or did others see them?
Jayden: I’ve shared quite a few on Fetlife and other places years ago.
Richard: I shared a fair amount, but I think I’ve kept most of them private.
3. Did any of them ever get out in public with embarrassing results?
Jayden: No embarrassing results (that weren’t intentionally embarrassing)
Richard: Not that I know of.
4. Were you ever videotaped having sex?
Jayden: Yes, on actual tape! That one was bad because my parents found it. Whoops. I got grounded.
Richard: Yes. It’s gone now. Which is a shame, it was a fun scene to setup as a welcome back for the girl I was dating at the time.
5. If so, was the tape ever made public?
Jayden: Not public, thankfully.
Richard: No.
6. Were you ever photographed or taped without your knowledge?
Jayden: If I didn’t know then how would I know…?
Richard: Not that I know of. 😛
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On the 9th day of Christmas, we give you nine(ish) answers to TMI Tuesday Questions!
The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.
1. What feels better, the moment right before cumming, the moment of cumming, or the moment right after cumming?
Jayden: The moment of cumming.
Richard: Right before
2. For the fellas: it is said that guys will fuck anything that moves. but what if you’re a hippie who’s in love with the wind, how would that relationship work out?
Richard: I don’t think I understand this question. I guess you jerk off in a hurricane.
3. For the ladies: what would be your first gut reaction after the guy you’re on a first date with after months of online chatting looks you straight in the eye and whispers to you even before saying hi, “let’s fuck like rabbits…”?
Jayden: If it’s someone I’m into, hell yeah! Come to think of it, I think I had a friend with benefits like that at one point (>15 years ago).
4. There can only be ONE!!! okay, you have to choose EITHER your dream man/woman/lover/partner or your dream job, one or the other, not both. Which do you choose for the rest of your life and why?
Jayden: Dream partner. But I already found him, so maybe I have a shot at both? 🙂 But if I have to pick one, a job is a job. I’d rather have a partner who is supportive, loving, kind, and that I have fun with than a dream job.
Richard: My dream job is house husband, so I’ll go with dream partner so I can be house husband for them.
5. Is love itself, being in love, crazy? Or is the world crazy, and love serves to heal a crazy world? or is it that you’re crazy and the world is just fine? I guess what i’m asking from you is for a little treatise on the general topic of love and craziness. what is love?…baby, don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me…
Jayden: Love is crazy. It’s hard to explain. But it’s such a wonderful feeling.
Richard: The world is more crazy than love.
Bonus: If all of us in the blogging community pooled our resources together and chained our blogs in unison into one big shining electrical power line of humanity, could we save the world?
Jayden: I don’t think so. Maybe in 2013 when this was written the world had a chance of being saved, but now…
Richard: Probably not. I don’t think you could find much meaningful that the whole blog community could get behind.
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On the 9th day of Christmas, we give you nine(ish) answers to TMI Tuesday Questions!
The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.
1. Did you ever play strip poker (or strip spin-the-bottle, or similar)? Did nudity result? Were there further developments? Details please.
(1) Jayden: I did! I played strip war. Each round, someone lost an article of clothing. There were three people playing. It was…quick. So then it became more of truth or dare. The winner got to dare the loser to do something.
(2) Richard: I played strip poker like an hour before I lost my virginity Also, more recently, strip Mario Kart. Most of us wanted to strip, so that one was more silly.
2. Did you ever play a nude party game, such as Naked Twister? Did it lead to anything further?
Jayden: Nope.
(3) Richard: No.
3. Did you ever play a game of Truth or Dare that led to nudity, or fondling, or more?
(4) Jayden: Yep. I ended up giving a blow job on a dare. I think I even had sex on a dare, but it was with the guy I was sleeping with anyway.
(5) Richard: I don’t think so.
4. Did you ever attend a party that led to sex with a more or less randomly chosen partner, i.e., swingers-lifestyle party, key party*? *key party – A couples party where all of the men put their car keys into a bowl or bag and at the end of the party, the women blindly select a set of keys to determine who she goes home with for the rest of the evening for sexual gratification.
Jayden: Nope.
(6) Richard: We had an accidental orgy at a Christmas party. I don’t know how random it is if everyone just plays with everyone.
5. Did you ever participate in unexpected co-ed skinny dipping in a group?
(7) Jayden: Yes, I skinny dipped at a friend’s pool party in high school. Richard and I had an accidental orgy on Christmas one year! We were hanging out with some friends who were all dating each other. Richard went to get a snack, and there was a blow job happening in our hallway.
(8) Richard: I don’t know how that story fits with this question and not the other. I have been co-ed skinny dipping a few times. I don’t know that it was unexpected, but it wasn’t specifically planned.
Jayden: Because it wasn’t random. They were friends we’ve had for a while. 🙂
Bonus: Do you have a favorite fantasy about a sexy party? Please share.
(9) Jayden: Yeah. I saw a porn once a decade or more ago where the submissive was serving dinner to a group of people. She was naked, they weren’t. There was something where they had a violet wand, and they “forced” her to touch it herself. Very much a mind-fuck and very sexy.
Richard: (Jayden “doesn’t like” denial or sensation play.)
Jayden:Shhhhh
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Richard was hoping to treat you all to a picture of a nice loaf of sourdough bread with a 6 on it. But instead, he accidentally killed the starter. So you’re getting a list of what NOT to do with your sourdough starter instead:
I didn’t really want to go to the bar, but my friend was DJing karaoke and I was trying to be supportive. I didn’t realize that it would end with me having my pick of four super hot and sexy people who all wanted to come home with me.
Entering the dark bar, I realized that this was just not what I wanted to be doing. I wanted to be at home with a mug of herbal tea and a book. I almost turned around and walked out, but then I saw Monty behind the DJ booth and he had the biggest grin when he saw me.
“Taby!” he cried, leaning over to kiss me on the cheek. I smiled back. “What are you going to sing?”
“Oh, Monty, I can’t go up there. You know that.”
“You can! You’re great!”
I shook my head, chuckling. “I don’t want to stand up here in front of all those people.”
“Have a drink and go for it. You’re better than you think you are.”
I stepped away, giving Monty the floor so he could do his thing. I sat down at the bar and ordered myself a drink. I never thought I was very good, but Monty was not the first to tell me that I was better at karaoke than I gave myself credit for. I always got so nervous going up there in front of all those people.
Three people in and I realized that I was way better than anyone who had gone so far, and even I recognized that. I guess that meant that I should go just for it. I threw back the rest of my fruity drink and walked up to Monty.
“Okay, Monty. Put me in.”
“You’re on.”
“Now?!”
“Yep.”
“But there must have been a line.”
Monty waved my comment away and pushed me up into the spotlight.
“What song am I singing?”
“You’ll know it,” he said with a grin.
And when the first notes started to play, he was right. I did know it. It was my favorite karaoke song to do and Monty knew it. It was a country love song. I never listened to much country, but this particular song was just well suited for my voice.
I was nervous, but once the song started to play and the first verse went okay, I felt more comfortable. I stopped paying attention to the room around me and just sang.
And when the song ended, the crowd went wild. I stepped down out of the spotlight, still grinning. Four hot and sexy people stood in front of me. And all of them wanted to buy me a drink…
On the 2nd day of Christmas (which are actually the 12 days after Christmas), we give you:
Two Sets of Answers to TMI Tuesday Questions!
The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.
1. What is the best thing you received for Christmas?
Jayden: An electronic picture frame because Richard knows how much I love taking pictures.
Richard: Stargate Blu-Rays, the first thing we ever put on our shared wishlist.
2. What is the best gift you gave for Christmas?
Jayden: My kid was very excited about their gifts.
Richard: Digital picture frame for Jayden!
3. What is your Christmas wish?
Jayden: To feel better! I’ve been sick this year and didn’t get to participate in any of my plans. 😦
Richard: To not have Christmas? Am I supposed to have a Christmas wish?
4. What are your plans for New Year’s Eve?
Jayden & Richard: We’re going to two parties. One of which will require pants, and one of which hopefully won’t. Maybe. If we’re healthy enough.
Bonus: The end of the world aka the Mayan apocalypse did not occur on 12/21/2012. Nonetheless, people across the world prepared for the doomsday event. How did you prepare for the end of the world?
Jayden: I didn’t do much of anything.
Richard: I think I was in Minnesota around that time.
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1. What is the sexiest thing you’ve done in the last two months?
Richard: Pissed all over Jayden, teased her for a while, and then painaled her until I came.
Jayden: What Richard said. 🙂 It was very sexy. Had I realized that was his plan, I might not have worn my sex heels and brand new dress, but whatever. I bought them so he could fuck me in them…
2. What is the sexiest thing you’ve worn in the last 30 days?
Jayden: I bought a nice dress on clearance that has a slit all the way up to my hips. That’s the dress I referenced above. It wasn’t meant to be only a sex dress, but whatever. It seems to have come clean…
Richard: Nothing.
3. What is the sexiest thing you’ve watched in the last 30 days?
Jayden: There have been some sexy pictures posted on blogs that I follow, but no porn.
Richard: Nothing’s really jumping to mind. I’ve been meaning to watch porn with Jayden while I tease her.
4. What is the sexiest thing you’ve heard in the last two weeks?
Jayden: Richard growling in my ear.
Richard: scaredjaydennoise.mp3
5. What is the sexiest thing you’ve said in the last 24 hours?
Jayden: I did a lot of whimpering. That’s probably the best.
Richard: Jayden seemed to like when I told her to make a list of all the things she didn’t want me to do so I could abuse her with them.
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1. During the December holiday season, Do you a. Go away to join other family? b. Have holiday fun with immediate family? c. Get to be alone with a lover? d. Enjoy the peace and quiet and down-time of being with yourself?
Jayden: Mostly a. I like to host the holidays, and I include family and friends as well.
Richard: I guess a? I don’t really celebrate the December holidays.
2. What is your favorite holiday tradition or thing that you like to do every holiday season?
Jayden: I have a bunch, but the stockings are probably my favorite. We wrap everything in the stockings and open them one item, one person at a time. It takes a long time, but it’s so much fun.
Richard: None.
3. You are walking down the street and a sexy person is standing with a sign that says “Kiss Me” and mistletoe hanging above their head. 1. Would you kiss that person? YES or NO 2. Why or why not?
Jayden: Maybe. I guess it depends on how cute they were and what Richard thought. It would be fun to kiss someone together like that.
Richard: Probably.
4. Santa made up his list and he has checked it twice. Turns out you are on the “naughty” list. What is the naughty thing you did that put you on that list?
Jayden: So much sex. The anal sex really put me over the edge on the naughty list…
Richard: I pissed all over Jayden’s brand new dry clean only dress.
5. For being naughty you have been locked in a room where you will be forced to learn about holiday cheer. You will have to watch 24 hours of a holiday movie, which movie would you choose to watch? (pick just one) a. A Christmas Story b. It’s a Wonderful Life c. White Christmas d. A Christmas Carol (original 1938 version or the 1992 Muppet version)
Jayden: B – Love that movie. I’d cry over and over again.
Richard: D (Muppets)
Bonus: The holidays can be a hectic time of year, so much so that romance might take a back seat to festivities and such. Give us YOUR sexy tip for keeping away the “chill” and “heating up” the holiday season.
Jayden: Make time for your partner. (Easier said than done.)
Richard: Snuggle with no clothes on.
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Thank you to Swinging Gemma for this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.
Fantasy Anyone?
1. Do you think that acting out a fantasy can sometimes cause damage to a relationship?
Jayden: I’m sure it’s possible, especially if one person has a serious kink that the other one isn’t into, but I think Richard and I are safe. Let’s act them all out!
Richard: (I snuffed Jayden and am typing these responses for her.)
2. Some couples roleplay their fantasies rather than introducing another person into the relationship to live out their fantasies. Do you think that this is an acceptable substitute?
Jayden: Sure. It’s a lot of fun to roleplay things. Sometimes it’s fun to bring in another person. I’m not opposed to that (I mean, you can’t exactly roleplay a gang bang…), but I think it’s a good substitute in most circumstances.
Richard: I think it’s not just acceptable, but probably better for most people. “Headhunting” a person specifically to fulfill a fetish is impractical at best, and that most people don’t need an actual doctor/teacher/serial killer for their fantasies.
3. Is there a particular movie or TV series or character from a movie or TV series that you fantasize about?
Jayden: Nah, I mostly just fantasize about Richard, so… But I do have a crush on Pierce Brosnan, I just don’t fantasize about him all the time.
Richard: Not really. There’s probably dozens I’ve jerked off to however many times over the years, but none that stand out.
4. Apart from the obvious things like child abuse, are there some things that are ‘off limits’ for a fantasy e.g. incest fantasies, age play, rape fantasies. Why/ why not?
Jayden: Probably. I can’t think of any that aren’t obvious. My limits are prettttty extensive.
Richard: Yeah, I can’t think of anything. If it’s not dangerous/illegal to act out, people should be free to go ahead. If it is… eh, situational. (I lean more towards RACK in general.)
5. What is the most taboo thing you have ever fantasized about doing?
Jayden: Is rape taboo? I feel like in kink communities, consensual non-consent is not very taboo. Breeding is a fun kink, though.
Richard: I feel like there’s a weird line here between “taboo” (which I associate more with “we don’t talk about this”) and actually criminal/immoral. Rape isn’t particularly taboo; you hear about rape in the news every day. It is, obviously, very criminal/immoral. Conversely, there’s a whole range of fantasies that are legal (or at least not first degree felonies) but that people are much more reluctant to talk about (most race/orientation/identity play type things). All this to say, probably the “worst” fantasy I’ve ever had would be some kind of “trapping” scenario, where someone is unable to say no to me, but also doesn’t want to, since that’s both technically rape, and also seems emotionally worse? Anything on the captor/prisoner, boss/subordinate, teacher/student, priest/nun type theme, but leaning into the coerced consent aspect.
6. Tell us about a fantasy that you have that you don’t ever see yourself actually acting out. Why do you think you will never act it out?
Jayden: Uhh, as established, if it’s not like child abuse, I’m down for almost anything.
Richard: Jayden will, regrettably, probably never be my harem sommelier, carefully selecting the appropriate partner for my current mood/kinks.
7. Have you ever pretended the person you were having sex with was someone else without telling them?
Jayden: Yeah… but not in a very long time. (Like multiple years.) It was pre-Richard.
Richard: I don’t think so. Like, I’ve certainly had fantasies flit around mid sex, but not, “this isn’t Jayden, it’s Becky,” or whatever.
8. Have you ever tried to make a fantasy a reality only to have it fail miserably? What happened?
Jayden: Yeah, I tried swinging with my ex once. It was not good. Not good at all. We got better at open relationships, but… in the end, it failed.
Richard: No specific fantasies, but I’ve certainly had individual kinks/scenes not work out at the time.
Bonus: Tell us about your most cherished fantasy. Did you ever live it out? Please give us all the juicy details because that is the kind of people we are.
Jayden: I don’t know if there’s a most cherished fantasy. Maybe the first time Richard and I were together, which I’ve written about in the past. A quick recap, though… He pissed in and used all three of my holes, which was so fucking hot, I can’t think about it without getting turned on. It wasn’t even a fantasy I knew I had until he sparked it in me.
Richard: Cherishing is a weird word to use to describe a fantasy. I would go with above sex sommelier. Which I may or may not flesh out before Jayden posts this.
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