The author of TMI Tuesday has decided to end her reign, but we have decided to continue on, going back to the archives. We’re going to continue with 2012, even though it’s a day off since that was a leap year. So here we are with an archived set of questions.

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Ironically, I went to make a Google Doc for Richard and I to share to answer the June questions we’ve skipped over, and I found that we did this exact same thing in June of 2022. Whoops! I guess June is just a busy month for us. But, at least we aren’t “behind” as we’re doing old questions anyway! It’s still fun to play along. We hope you enjoy!

~Jayden

May 29, 2012: It’s just a fantasy

1. If your lover was turned on by forced feminization would you participate (giving or receiving)?
*forced feminization is the practice of enforcing activities on a male, which are typically associated with women, to make him submissive. For example: wearing lingerie, heels, make-up.
Jayden: Probably. I mean, I have in the past, but it’s definitely not my thing.
Richard: Sure! I’ve done it one or two times in the past, and it’s been alright. I think it’s a much heavier lift for the receiving partner. Just throwing on a frilly skirt sometimes winds up more awkward/silly than sexy, but going “all the way” is a big time/effort investment.

2. When you have sexual dreams or fantasies that are aggressive or cruel, does it worry you?
Jayden: Not particularly, because I trust Richard to adhere to a safe limit. It’s fucking hot though, even just thinking about it.
Richard: Not really. I’ve been kicking around a pretty grim dark fantasy erotica idea for a week or so. 

3. Tell us your hottest filthiest fantasy, right now, in 100 words or less.
This is the fantasy about your desires that you probably never share, maybe they even go against your morals, or are societal taboos.
Jayden: (I don’t think there is anything kinky I don’t share with Richard, and often my readers!) Right at the moment, my hottest fantasy is to be driven around naked or nearly naked, hoping not to get caught (at night, of course), and then driven to a secluded spot to be fucked.
Richard: I’ll just go with the short version of the story from question 2: Vampire conquers the world, fucking/breeding/transforming/eating(drinking?) people very messily along the way

4. Which super hero would you like to have sex with? Why?
a. Aquaman
b. Superman
c. Wonder Woman
d. She-Ra
Jayden: Hmm, Aquaman doesn’t have to breathe, right? That can have its benefits, I’m sure.
Richard: I feel like fucking Jason Mamoa is the best story to be able to tell people, so I’ll go with him too.

5. Knowing there’s a hot young couple in the adjoining hotel room, would you press your ear against the wall to hear the action on the other side?
Jayden: Hell yeah, and I hope they are listening to me, too!
Richard: Probably. Then make the silliest possible sex noises. Jayden and I wind up in adjoining rooms with friends occasionally, and it’s one of my favorite (but not particularly sexy) games to play.

6. Do you think the lure to live out sexual fantasies or have sex frequently is amplified by technology? Briefly explain.
Jayden: No. Technology is often a distractor for me.
Richard: I think amplified? It’s easier to find ideas.

Bonus: Describe your fantasy life in three (3) words.
Jayden: Yes please, Sir.
Richard: How’s that feel?

June 5, 2012

Think kink!

1. What’s the kinkiest thing about you, either mentally or physically?
Jayden: I want to be a 24/7 submissive.
Richard: It’s hard to pick just one. I used to use internal watersports as my test for “no limits” subs.(Jayden: I passed. 😉 )

2. Do you have any fetishes? If so, what are they?
Jayden: Too many to count! I love CNC (consensual non-consent) and impact play the most, I think.
Richard: Also lots! Sensation play is a fun one we’ve been trying to do a bit more lately.

3. Have you ever been spanked? Did you enjoy it? Tell us more…
Jayden: Too many times to count. It’s a weekly occurrence.
Richard: Five minutes of maintenance prevents an hour of punishment.

4. Have you been tied up, or tied someone else up? Did you use rope or  restraints?
Jayden: Both. I prefer getting tied up. Restraints are my preference, but Richard and I had fun with saran wrap recently.
Richard: Also both. I want to like rope more, but mostly do restraints.

5. Would you classify yourself as more dominant, submissive, a switch or entirely vanilla?
Jayden: A submissive leaning switch
Richard: Dom leaning switch

6. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done?
Jayden: I mean, I’ve done to many scenes to count, but having to ask to pee 24/7 is pretty kinky.
Richard: I arranged a surprise blindfolded orgy as a homecoming gift for an ex.

7. Have you been to a BDSM club? What was it like? If not, would you ever go to one?
Jayden: Sort of? A local person owned a club and has turned their B&B into a sort of club. It was fun to go to, but it was small and pretty crowded. I would love to go to a real club someday.
Richard: I went decently often when I lived in a larger city. Oldish building, bunch of rooms set up for play or demos. It was fun.

8. What’s your favourite fetish item or implement?
Jayden: Favorites are hard to pick, but probably nipple clamps. We recently got a set that have three chains that connect them. Very sexy.
Richard: Whartenburg Wheel!

9. Favourite kinky clothing material?
Jayden: Silk or satin. Something soft.
Richard: Leather!

10. Thigh boots – love ’em or hate ’em?
Jayden: Love ‘em, but my thighs are too big for anything bought off the rack.
Richard: Like ’em? Like, they’re fun, but I wouldn’t go as far as love.

11. If you’re kinky, who knows about it? Do you tell people or is it a closely guarded secret?
Jayden: Everyone who met me online knows, which at this point, is most people that I don’t work with. (Even most of my family knows anymore. It helps that I’m not the only kinky person in my family…)
Richard: I think most of my friends know. I don’t necessarily go out of the way to advertise it, but I don’t hide it either.

12. What are your personal limits?
Jayden: I have very few, when I’m with a partner I trust, like Richard.
Richard: Scat.

13. What’s your safeword and why did you choose that one?
Jayden & Richard: We use green, yellow, and red. It’s an easy way to check in, and easy to remember.

14. Which fetishes do you just really not get?
Jayden: Furries, feet, and spitting. To each their own; those just aren’t for me.
Richard: Popping. Ick.

Bonus:  Complete this sentence:  To me, Fetish, Kink and BDSM means…
Jayden: trust, love, and acceptance.
Richard: exploration and adventure!

More to come soon!

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