#Bloganuary 21

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Who is your favorite author and why?

Jayden: Mary Higgins Clark. She is the queen of mystery! I was introduced to her when my grandmother passed away and my mom handed me Stillwatch from my grandmother’s closet. It was a book from her TBR (to be read) pile. I fell in love with this powerful female author who was everything I wanted to be. To this day, she’s the only author I collect novels for, and I have a good portion of them. She is phenomenal.

Richard: I’m really bad at these questions. It turns into a philosophical, “but what does favorite mean?” thing. I think we’ve had this come up before and I’ve thrown out Naomi Novik, KA Applegate, and maybe Kim Harrison once? Let’s go with Michael Stackpole today. While I (like every other millennial) has a “remember when you found Animorphs?” story (Borders? or a bookstore that would soon become one, Oxford Valley Mall, 1997, book #7 The Stranger) I think Stackpole is probably the most important author for my overall development as a reader/writer.

It’s a twisty, nerdy road. I don’t really remember a time before I was a Star Wars fan as a kid. My dad brought a demo disk for TIE Fighter home (probably circa 1994, based on the release date) and I was already really into it. That would also be the year that the Battletech cartoon came out. I maintain that it is a far better show than it’s generally given credit for. As a 5 year old, the fact that it had giant robots and something resembling a coherent plot made it the best thing ever. (These will converge eventually, I swear.)

The next year, 1995 (again, guesstimating based on the release date), my dad proudly came back to the car (where I was probably reading something considerably less cool than Animorphs or a Michael Stackpole book) with a copy of Mechwarrior 2. He (correctly) realized that anything with the Battletech logo on it would obviously be awesome. I think he also played the demo and probably saw that it won every freaking video game award that year. Or one of his German gamer friends told him to play it. That was how we got a bunch of game recs back in the day.

Fast forward to probably 1997, when my dad got a copy of The Krytos Trap from the library. I liked it (but, again, I’d have liked just bout anything Star Wars at that point.) Around the same time, we also got a copy of a strategy guide for Mechwarrior 2. As I recall, it was not a terribly useful strategy guide (aiming and driving at the same time is hard for an 8 year old!) But this was back in the good old days when strategy guides would have all kinds of cool behind the scenes stuff. So the first 50 pages or so were less about the game, and more about the history of Battletech, including book recommendations. Stackpole’s Warrior trilogy came highly recommended (with good reason, it’s probably the best thing he wrote in the setting.)

So off we went to the library, to use those old school loud keyboards with the plastic couch protectors on them. While they didn’t have the Warrior books they did have the Rogue Squadron (fuck you Disney!) series. I’m pretty sure those were the first “adult” books I read. That’s mostly true, I think I tried to read War of The Worlds in like 3rd grade. It didn’t go very well.

I found a ton of my other favorite authors via the Star Wars EU and Battletech series. Looking back, it’s kind of weird to see how all the pieces fell together (Star Wars>Battletech Cartoon>Mechwarrior>Strategy Guide>Rogue Squadron>Battletech Books…) None of them are that odd. I was a nerdy boy in the 90s, of course I liked Star Wars. But it was an interesting and meandering road. A few of those authors are still publishing today, and the ones that aren’t are always a gem when they pop up at a used bookstore. I am glad that I fell down the Battletech side of the rabbit hole instead of the 40K one. (Otherwise, this post would probably be about Dan Abnett. Who is fine, I guess.)

Anyway, I’d say Stackpole has a strong claim to the “best military sci-fi media tie-in” author title. How impressive this is is up to you. I remember finding his website back when I was in high school, and a lot of his advice for writers is really good. Don’t edit until you’re done a draft. Start with interesting characters and let them drive the story. I think balance is really his biggest strength as an author. Finding the ratio between political intrigue (giving your new wife a china set of all the planets you’re going to conquer as a wedding gift? YES!) personal drama, humor (again, FUCK YOU DISNEY!) and mech/starfighter battles isn’t easy. He gets his explosions wrong sometimes, but we forgiven him.

#Bloganuary 20

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What irritates you about the home you live in??

Jayden: We have a loft apartment, so there is no bedroom door and the walls don’t go all the way up, so there’s no privacy.

Richard: There’s no utility sink.

#Bloganuary 18

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What’s your favorite meal to cook and/or eat?

Jayden: To cook: chicken, rice, sour cream, and cream of mushroom soup. It’s a recipe my mom adapted years ago, so it’s comfort food for me. It’s my favorite dish that I can make myself.

To eat: I don’t think this counts as a meal, but I would make one out of it. Richard makes the best sourdough biscuits. Yum!

Richard: I’ve really been enjoying experimenting with chili lately. Jayden can’t have beans, so I’ve had to change my recipe a little (celery and carrots help give it some texture). I’ve been working on a sweet, medium spice turkey recipe lately.

Making chili also means I have to get my corn bread game on point.

And as far as favorite to eat… chili is a great excuse to pull out a spork.

#Bloganuary 17

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Describe the happiest day of your life.

Jayden: Our wedding day. It was near perfect. Richard had a good time. My daughter had a good time. My friends and family had a good time. It was wonderful. I would do it all again in a heartbeat.

Richard: In the winter of 2020-2021, Jayden and I got snowed in together. We had just started dating, and it was a record breaking snow. We spent three days drinking tea, having snow ball fights, and snuggling (and of course, having sex). WHERE’S MY SNOW, WINTER!?

#Bloganuary 16

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Do you have a memory linked to a smell?

Jayden: Yankee Candle’s MidSummer’s Night brings me right back to middle school. Hanging out with my neighbor (who I was hopelessly in love with) on his back porch, listening to music with that scent in the air. The first time I smelled that candle, it took me right back.

Richard: We just did a sense memory piece at grad school last week!

Cold, dark, and sweet. That’s the smell of our basement. Same as most people’s I think. But it doesn’t go with the rest of it. Sound? Plasma rifles jrrrrr, exploding fireballs, cries of pain. Touch? Cold, sharp metal. Warm skin. Taste? Bitter coffee. Sour pretzels. And all I can see is hundreds of demons, dripping with blood.

I’m 4 years old, sitting on my dad’s knee at his desk while he plays Doom.

#Bloganuary 15

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What fear have you conquered?

Jayden: In about two years, I got a new job, left a marriage, moved out, got remarried, and started a doctoral program. By the way, I hate change. I’m much happier now, but it was very scary at the time.

Richard: I’m embracing my sexuality and writing about bisexuality and erasure in my thesis.

#Bloganuary 14

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What is your preferred mode of travel?

Jayden & Richard: The train. We both love it, and we both hate that the passenger train infrastructure in our area sucks.

#Bloganuary 13

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If you had a billion US dollars, how would you spend it?

Jayden: I would call a financial planner, and then quit my day job. After that, I would be looking at who needs that money the most in my life, and how can I invest it so I never have to work again?

Richard: Also call a financial planner. And I would want some very expensive Swiss Army Knives and Scotch.

#Bloganuary 12

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What chore do you find the most challenging to do?

Jayden: Pack Richard’s lunch. I eat the same thing for lunch every day and even so, I have a list of what goes in my lunch posted on the refrigerator. Richard doesn’t like to eat the same thing every day (totally fair), so I have to really think about what I’m putting in it, and sometimes I forget stuff. Thankfully, we planned for that, and he keeps extra snacks at work. 🙂

#Bloganuary 11

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How do you define success?

Jayden: Success is such a broad word.

Success as an author: being able to do it full time.

Success as a blogger: having enough followers. (What’s enough?)

Success as a mother: having a independent children who can take care of themselves.

Success as a partner: helping bring balance and happiness to my partner’s life.

Those are just a few. Tell us in the comments how you define success.

#Bloganuary 10

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Has a book changed your life?

Jayden: Sure. 100%. Whether it was my first mystery novel (Stillwatch by Mary Higgins Clark) taken out of my grandmother’s closet after her passing, or the Midnight Circus by Erin Morgenstern which I finished and literally started reading over again, there have been countless books that have changed my life.

Richard: Animorphs. Duh. I feel like (for millenials) this question has to be have an “other than Animorphs” at the end, to avoid everyone giving the same answer.

I don’t actually have a good answer other than Animorphs. I think I used all the brain power I had on this question to be flippant.

#Bloganuary 9

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What is the most memorable gift you have received?

Jayden: Honestly, it’s hard for me to come up with stuff. When I think of gifts, I think of the gifts I give others and forget the ones I got. I think the most memorable one right now is the set of pearls Richard got me for my birthday two years ago. It was particularly memorable because he remembered me telling him that I didn’t have my own pearls and tried to steal my mom’s, so he bought me my own set. It’s not just that it was pretty jewelry (though it is), but that he remembered a conversation we had and acted on it.

#Bloganuary 8

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How far back in your family tree can you go?

Jayden: I can trace my family tree all the way back to the Mayflower. It’s pretty cool to see it go all the way back that far. (It probably also means that some of my ancestors were awful people, but thankfully we’ve learned a thing or two over the generations.)

#Bloganuary 7

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Write a short story or poem about rain.

Jayden:

The rain wouldn’t stop pouring outside. It had been days and days and days. All anyone wanted was a break from the rain. But mother nature didn’t comply. “Master?” I said, kneeling at my Dom’s feet.

“Yes, pet?”

“I want to be able to go outside again.”

“I know, pet,” he said, and he scritched me behind the ear.

My favorite thing to do was for Master to take me outside on my leash, sometimes making me pee outside. I loved the feeling of the cool grass on my legs and hands, tickling me as I crawled around. I loved feeling the cool breeze across my naked body. But when it rained, cool became cold and exhilarating became uncomfortable.

“Maybe I’ll make you go outside anyway, pet.”

I whimpered, but even as I protested, my pussy dripped with arousal at the thought of being forced by my Master.

#Bloganuary 6

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Why do you write?

Jayden: It’s a good creative outlet.

Richard: *Looks up from pile of manuscripts, critique letters, and seminar readings* TO FINISH THIS DAMN MFA!

#Bloganuary 5

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What brings you joy in life?

Jayden: Doing things for others. I like being able to help other people. It’s almost a curse. All I want is a thank you, and I’m happy to do almost anything. (That might be why I lean so heavily submissive…)

Richard: Cooking for others.

#Bloganuary 4

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What is a treasure that’s been lost?

Jayden: My mom lost my grandmother’s diamond engagement ring. She inherited it when my grandmother passed away. She was devastated. I assured her that it wasn’t a big deal (it wasn’t valuable, just sentimental) and that we had our pictures and memories that were more important. That was almost a decade ago and it chokes me up when I think about it, but I won’t tell my mom because it will just upset her.

Richard: The ability to take Swiss Army Knives on a plane.

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January 4 question – Do you have a word of the year? Is there one word that sums up what you need to work on or change in the coming year?

Jayden: My word for 2023 is consistency. I need to be more consistent in many facets of my life. Work is the one place I’m probably the most consistent because I’ve developed my routines. But I need to be more consistent at home with completing the chores that pile up (Richard helps me to be good at staying on top of the daily chores). I need to be more consistent with getting my school work done on time. I need to be more consistent with advertising for my side job. And the big one is that I need to be more consistent with my blog. On that note, did you see our big announcement on December 31st? I really hope that I can stay consistent this time, so be sure to read my posts, like, and comment, so I know you’re out there reading!

Richard: Graduate! Once I’m done with grad school, it’ll open up a ton of time and energy for other things. I have a ton of writing projects that are kinda sorta ready to move onto the next step, but keep getting shoved out of the way for schoolwork instead.

What is your word of 2023?

#Bloganuary 3

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What is the earliest memory you have?

Jayden: I have a very vague memory of my mom’s best friend’s house that she sold when I was 3 or 4. Other than that, I remember watching TV with my parents and playing school in Kindergarten. Nothing particularly crazy.

Richard: My mom yelling at me for brushing my teeth wrong. Like, I spit and it got on her toothbrush or something. I was 2? 3?