1. How do you spend most of your time?
Working my day job. In my free time, I guess I write more than any other hobby.
2. Is this where you thought you would end up?
Mostly. I knew I always wanted to be a writer in some form or fashion. As for my personal life, maybe not so much. I’ve known that this is where I would end up when I was 18, but not before that.
3. What would you do differently if given the opportunity?
In my personal life? Not much. I believe that everything I did shaped who I am today and the life I have, and I am happy.
4. How do you encourage creativity in the bedroom?
I have spent many years working on a list of bedroom (and outside the bedroom, but still sexual) activities my husband and I both like. (Or things I can do on my own for fetishes we don’t share.) When we need an idea, we can pick from the stack of cards. When life isn’t too crazy, I pick several for the week and we work them into our routines.
5. Tell us something about yourself that might surprise us.
No one at my day job would even begin to guess that I write BDSM erotica.
Bonus: Sexually, who has influenced you the most?
I had a particular boyfriend in High School who suggested we try BDSM. It was the single most freeing thing I have ever done sexually. Looking back, I realize that I had submissive tendencies long before I ever met him, but he’s the one who unleashed me, literally!
J R Vincente 