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It’s All Good
1. What’s the most stressful thing in your life right now?
Jayden: Deciding the trajectory of my professional life. In particular, what to get my doctorate in. Also, moving.
Richard: My cat has her first visit to the vet since I adopted her, and she doesn’t like being handled by me, let alone a stranger. I really don’t want them to have to put her under for her checkup.
2. True or False. The best way to get over an ex is to get under someone new.
Jayden: I’ve heard that before, but as a (mostly) poly person, my relationships have often overlapped, so I don’t know how that computes.
Richard: I like to take some me time when I have a break up, but a nice little fling never hurtd.
3. Is rebound sex empowering or does it leave you feeling lonelier?
Jayden: Like I said, most of my relationships have overlapped, so I don’t think I’ve ever had rebound sex. Pretty sure I wouldn’t want to. I don’t love casual sex most of the time.
Richard: I don’t think I’ve ever actually had rebound sex either. Usually my first time after a relationship is with already established FWB or similar.
4. Would you rather watch porn every night forever or never watch porn again?
Jayden: I’d have to really think about the last time I watched porn, so… never watch it again.
Richard: How much porn do I have to watch? How broadly are we defining porn? If I could watch some random 30 second clip, or count some weird artsy pseudo-porn, it wouldn’t be too bad.
5. Would you rather go to bed alone forever or share a bed with someone forever?
Jayden: Easiest question you’ve ever asked. Share a bed with someone forever. I hate sleeping alone.
Richard: Snuggles are essential for good sleep!
Bonus: You must pick one and explain. Would you rather your mom or your ex set up and run your dating apps?
Jayden: My ex. I love my mom, I do, but I’m not sure I trust her dating advice. My ex, despite all the reasons he was an ex, was usually a good judge of character.
Richard: One of my exes is also my one of my best friends, and several others are still decent friends who know me well. They’ll do fine.
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