1. How replaceable are you?
How replaceable am I, or how replaceable do I feel? Those are two totally different answers. I am one of a kind. I’m unique. I’m special. But most of the time, I feel like there’s someone better out there. Lots of someones, in fact. When will that friend/partner find someone better and move on? I try to push those thoughts aside and my current partners are excellent at reassuring me. But I often feel replaceable.
2. Does jealously have value in driving humans to improve themselves or is it a purely negative emotion?
I don’t know if it’s purely negative. I think it depends on what you do with it. If you feel jealous that someone accomplished something and you didn’t, maybe it will drive you to try harder and put forth more effort. If it makes you angry and you give up or treat someone else badly because of it, then it’s not positive. As with most things, it’s what you do with the emotion that makes the difference.
3. A section of your life’s memories needs to be erased, which era will you elect to have erased?
a. childhood memories – age 3 to 12
b. teen and young adult years – age 13 to 23
c. adult – age 24 to 35
Well. If I could break up (b) a little more, I would go with that. But I met my husband in that range. I got engaged and married. I wouldn’t want to erase those memories. And I’m not 35 yet. So, I guess (a) then.
4. With no laws or rules to influence your behavior, how do you think you would behave?
Absolutely. I might have some public sex though. Okay, I definitely would have some public sex. (Don’t worry, I’d make sure it was in an area with no kids!) I would also shout from the rooftops about the people I love. But since I’m married, I can’t do that.
5. Does anonymity encourage people to misbehave or does it reveal how people would choose to act all the time if they could?
I think it’s the latter. If people are willing to misbehave because of the anonymity, then that’s who they truly are.
Bonus: In the time of coronavirus pandemic, what are you rocking–homemade face covering or manufactured mask?
I’m working with manufactured until my homemade ones come in from a family member.
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