40 Kinky Questions – Jayden

We came across this set of questions that we thought we would answer for you in the absence of the Erotic Journal Challenge. Though, for us, this set of questions was very tame, haha. But here are my answers, and next week, Richard will answer them! Feel free to play along and answer the questions in a comment or drop the link to your blog where you answered the questions!


1. Have you ever had sex in three or more positions in one session?

Oh yeah, absolutely. Fun times. 🙂

2. Have you ever had sex continuously for 1 hour or more?

Intercourse? I don’t think so. But a sexual scene, absolutely.

3. Have you ever devoted an entire day to sex and sexual activity (with breaks for eating, etc)?

Yes! Richard and I did that just recently, in fact.

4. Have you ever been so loud having sex that housemates/neighbors commented or complained?

Yeah, I’ve been heard before. I can get quite loud.

5. Have you ever had your sexual technique/style/skill openly praised by someone?

Yes. I like getting compliments. I work hard for them.

6. Have you ever written an explicitly erotic story?

I don’t know… have I?

7. Have you ever brought your partner to orgasm using only your hands?

I don’t know that I have with Richard. Yet.

8. Have you ever licked or sucked on someone else’s feet and/or toes?

Nope, and I’m not sure I would.

9. Have you ever had sex with someone you’re not married to?

Considering I’m not married and currently sexually active, uh yes. To be fair, I had many partners before I got married, too.

10. Have you ever had sex with someone who’s married to someone else?

Yes. I was poly, after all.

11. Have you ever had sex simultaneously with two people—MMF? MFF?

Yes. Both MMF and MFF.

12. Have you ever had anal sex?

Yes. See our anal sex story here.

13. Have you ever gone out in public while wearing an anal plug?

Yes, though not in a while.

14. Have you ever been told you’re dirty because of the things you say?

Haha, yeah. Richard likes calling me a dirty slut.

15. Have you ever gotten really turned on by saying or hearing dirty talk?

Yes! I didn’t think I had it in me to dirty talk well. Richard proved me wrong.

16. Have you ever had sexual fantasies related to or involving submission, domination, suppression, forced intercourse, infliction of pain, bondage, hot wax, nipples clamps, etc…?

Hahahaha. Yes.

17. Have you ever been involved in any sexual activities you would describe as kinky?

Hahahaha. Yes.

18. Have you ever realized that you are much more sexually open-minded/kinky than most of your previous partners and/or friends?

Yes I have, and recently, too. It was kind of a shock to realize just how much I need kink in my life.

19. Have you ever been part of an S/M roleplay (master/mistress/slave), domination (as the dominant/submissive part), or being victim of pain (such as whipping, caning, hot wax on genitals, nipple clamps/genital clamps etc.)?

Yes, yes, yes, and yes.

20. Have you ever identified as bisexual–to yourself? to partners? to friends?

Yes. To pretty much everyone.

21. Have you ever fantasized about or practiced orgasm control/denial?

Yes, but I haven’t practiced it a whole lot.

22. Have you ever daydreamed about sexual activities exceeding what most people consider “normal” sex?

Yeah, definitely. I once had an actual dream that I was exposed walking down the street and literally orgasmed in my sleep.

23. Have you ever gotten really turned on by fantasizing about/witnessing gay or lesbian sex?

Yes. I like gay porn, mostly written erotica though.

24. Have you ever tried scissoring?

Yeah, it’s okay.

25. Have you ever performed oral sex on a man?

26. Have you ever performed oral sex on a woman?

27. Have you ever received oral sex from a man?

28. Have you ever received oral sex from a woman?

Yes to the last four questions.

29. How old were you the first time you had sex?

Too young. Not even a teenager, and yes it was consensual.

30. Where?

At my house.

31. How many partners?

I stopped tracking, and at this point, I couldn’t count if I wanted to. I don’t think the number is that high, I just have a poor memory. Update: I attempted to count. I think it’s around 30.

32. Have you ever practiced BDSM on yourself (bondage, nipple clamps, hot wax, suction, electro-stim, etc etc etc)?

Yes. It used to be the only way I could get any real kink.

33. Have you had more or fewer lovers than your current partner?

I’ve had more.

34. Have you ever had sex in front of other people?

Yes. It’s hot.

35. Did you know them?

Yes, they were friends.

36. Did you like it?

Yes, absolutely.

37. Have you ever had a crush on a fellow blogger here on WordPress?

Sure. There are a lot of attractive women I follow.

38. Have you ever met anyone through AFF, OKCupid, Kassidie, or another site?

Yes. I used to use OKCupid a lot, for over 15 years.

39. Have you ever had an orgasm without any direct stimulation (not counting dreams)?

I haven’t. Just that one I mentioned from a dream.

40. Do you like being called dirty names during sex?

I do! I think it’s really hot.

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